Wendy A. Hagan

Macken Funeral Home Memorial Photo
Date of Birth:
Friday, September 23, 1955
Date of Death:
Friday, October 12, 2012
Age:
57 years old

Visitation

Date: Wednesday October 17, 2012
Time: 5:00 pm - 8:00 pm

Location: River Park Chapel at Macken Funeral Home [ view map ]

Second Visitation

Date: Thursday October 18, 2012
Time: 9:30 am - 10:30 am

Memorial Service

Date: Thursday October 18, 2012
Time: 10:30 am

Location: St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church [ view map ]

Burial

Location: Oakwood Cemetery

Macken Funeral Home Memorial Photo
Date of Birth:
Friday, September 23, 1955
Date of Death:
Friday, October 12, 2012
Age:
57 years old
Macken Funeral Home Memorial Photo
Date of Birth:
Friday, September 23, 1955
Date of Death:
Friday, October 12, 2012
Age:
57 years old

Wendy A. Hagan

Wendy Hagan, age 57 of Rochester, passed away on October 12th, 2012 following a brave battle with Stage 4 Lung Cancer. She was diagnosed with cancer in June 2012, completed radiation, as well as several rounds of chemotherapy. Wendy suffered several complications related to her cancer diagnosis, which ultimately contributed to her passing.

Wendy was born in Wabasha, MN and moved to Rochester where she graduated from cosmetology school and worked as a barber for 39 years. Wendy met her husband Jack in Rochester, married in 1978, and started their family in 1982. Wendy was always known for her warm and inviting personality, touching many lives over the course of her own. She was an incredibly hard working person, both in her personal and professional life. Wendy will be dearly missed by her family and friends, and will always be remembered for her loving nature.

She is survived by her husband Jack, her daughters Kallie Amaral (Tony Amaral) and Nikki Brown (Mike Brown). She is remembered by her siblings John Mussell (Bee Mussell), Diane Doty (Dick Doty), Cheryl Hondlik (Jim Hondlik), Tom Mussell (Angie Mussell), and Cindy Hartert (Jerry Hartert).

She is preceded in death by her parents Larry and Dorothy Mussell, brothers Roger Mussell, Billy Mussell and sister Mary Jane Mussell.

A Funeral Mass will be held at St Francis of Assisi. Burial will be in Oakwood Cemetery.

Condolences

The family of Wendy A. Hagan has received the following condolences.

We were so sorry to hear of Wendy's illness and passing.  She was such a kind person!  She was soooo good to my mother as she suffered and died of cancer.  She personally visited her and washed her hair for her when she was homebound.  She remained a close friend to my elderly father for the years he was alone in his home.  He misses her and we do too.  God bless her and her family.  With sincere condolences for all those who loved her.

 

Mary Geronsin

I met Wendy only once skiing on the Mississippi with the Mussell family years ago, but I remember her sparkle. I was friends with her sister Diane. It was so uplifting to read the many heart-warming tributes....To A Life Well Lived. Rest in Peace.

Jack and family,

  I am so sorry to hear of Wendy's passing.  It has been may years but I still hold pleasant memories of sitting on your front steps on 13th Avenue enjoying a cool beverage and good company.

Dear Wendy Hagan Family,  You have our deepest sympathy.  We will remember Wendy's warmth and kindness whenever we were at the Kahler Barbershop.  What a lovely person!  We'll miss her!  -- Kurt Bakken Family

Wendy was a true highlight for me as a customer for many years....she made everyone feel like a special friend.  Even after moving away from Rochester, whenever I'd return, I'd call ahead to make sure she could fit me in so I could have a visit and a great haircut.  She was a joy and will be greatly missed.

Jack Van Straaten  Tucson, AZ

 Our sincere condolences to all of you. Your family has been special in our hearts for many years. Growing up with all of you in Wabasha  made our childhood memories quite wonderful. Think of you often and so sorry to hear of Wendy's passing.

As a loyal client of Wendy's I just want to add my voice to the many others who appreciated Wendy's unique warmth and skill. I always looked forward to seeing her and will miss her very much.

Dear Jack, Kallie and Nikki,

Deb just called to let me know about Wendy.  We returned from San Francisco late last night.  I am so sad to hear this.  You were such wonderful neighbors.  I still recall coming home and little Anna going over and picking a number of bright beautiful tulips from your landscaping (we were unpacking).  Wendy was so gracious.

My condolences.  Wendy was always so full of life.  It was always fun sneaking up on her at the barber shop.  Our thoughts are with you all.

Paul Grinde

I am so sorry for the loss of Wendy.  She was a very beautiful and friendly person.  God bless you all in this very sad time of your life.

We are so sorry to hear of Wendy's passing. As 1973 classmates of Wendy's from St. Felix and Wabasha High, we feel the pain of losing a dear friend.  Although we visited with each other sparingly, we always felt as though we just said good-bye yesterday.  She will be missed.  As I write this note, I can hear her laugh!

Our prayers and condolences to her husband and daughters as well as her brothers and sisters. 

Jack,

We are so very sorry for your loss!  Wendy was a very sweet and patient lady that put up with my friend all these years. 

If there is anything we can do please ask.  We hope to see you soon.

 

To Kallie and family: We are so very sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that we are thinking of you, and praying

you find comfort and healing with each new tomorrow.

Hagan and Mussell Families. I was one of the lucky ones. I grew up one block away from Wendy and we spent many days in school together. Wendy would tell everyone in the barber shop that she and 'Loec' went to kindergarten together. We played many games (kick the can) as kids in the old neighborhood. I lost track of Wendy after graduation from high school. Then I started work in Rochester, needed a haircut and we had a reunion. We talked about everything, but mostly about our families and siblings. Family was important to Wendy. I will miss the talks we had at the barber shop.

My sincere sympathies.

Dear Jack,Kellie and Nikiki,

Please accept my deepest sympathy on your loss of Wendy. At least we know she is at peace and free of pain.

She always took such good care of my late husband. Thank you Wendy!

Sincerly, Jan Pritchard

The St. David's Rehab Hospital therapy staff in Austin, TX is sending their thoughts and prayers to your family at this tough time. God bless.

-Victoria Morgan and St. David's staff-

My sons and I have been patrons of the barber shop for 20+ years. We loved Wendy because she was so warm and friendly -- and an excellent barber. She made getting a haircut fun. Wendy was extra special to my son Will because she gave him his first haircut back in 1990 and has cut his hair ever since. We will all miss her. Our thoughts are with the Hagan family.
Harry Hoffman

We offer our sincere sympathy to Wendy's husband, Jack, her daughters, and the entire Mussell family.  She was a warm and special person who will always be remembered.  Rest in Peace, Wendy.

Dear Jack, Kallie & Nikki,

Our hearts ache with deep sadness at the news of Wendy's passing and your loss. We
have been thinking and praying for Wendy and your family since we first heard
about her illness.

Wendy was indeed a remarkable woman with a warm heart, keen wit and a wonderful sense
of humor. She was a very down to earth person with an infectious smile and
laughter and she was one of the most genuine individuals one could meet.  As my barber I had the delight of meeting
with her on a monthly basis over the past fourteen years. Every visit included
us talking about our families and children. She always delighted in talking
about Kallie, Nikki, their spouses, Jack and our daughter Angie who grew up with
Kellie. She was always so warm and positive in her support of all of them.

We will miss her and those visits and we will always hold her in our hearts as a
special and extraordinary woman, mother, barber and friend. I will never have a
haircut without thinking about Wendy, both with a pang of sadness in my heart for
her loss, but also more greatly, joy in the memory of her smile, laughter and
warmth.

May God bless each of you and your extended family with the strength to deal with
this most difficult loss and may you take great comfort in the everlasting
memories of the love and joy you all shared with her throughout her remarkable life.

Warmly,

Jim & Brenda Riggott

Dear Jack, Kallie & Nikki,

Our hearts ache with deep sadness at the news of Wendy's passing and your loss. We
have been thinking and praying for Wendy and your family since we first heard
about her illness.

Wendy was indeed a remarkable woman with a warm heart, keen wit and a wonderful sense
of humor. She was a very down to earth person with an infectious smile and
laughter and she was one of the most genuine individuals one could meet.  As my barber I had the delight of meeting
with her on a monthly basis over the past fourteen years. Every visit included
us talking about our families and children. She always delighted in talking
about Kallie, Nikki, their spouses, Jack and our daughter Angie who grew up with
Kellie. She was always so warm and positive in her support of all of them.

We will miss her and those visits and we will always hold her in our hearts as a
special and extraordinary woman, mother, barber and friend. I will never have a
haircut without thinking about Wendy, both with a pang of sadness in my heart for
her loss, but also more greatly, joy in the memory of her smile, laughter and
warmth.

May God bless each of you and your extended family with the strength to deal with
this most difficult loss and may you take great comfort in the everlasting
memories of the love and joy you all shared with her throughout her remarkable life.

Warmly,

Jim & Brenda Riggott

I am so sorry to hear of Wendy's passing, she was a fun and life-loving person. We had fun many years ago in school, and I knew her as a business person in the shop.  We can only hope she has peace and no more suffering from the horrible disease that invaded her.  My sincere condolences to all the family.

Jack, Kallie & Nikki,
As with many others, I knew Wendy through the barber shop. I like so many, she made me feel like a life-long friend. Each time I visited, we would share updates on our families, as we both had daughters that we were very proud of. Know that she was a very special person, and loved by many. My sincere sympathy.

To the Hagan and Mussell families,

My sincere condolences to you and all your loved ones.  As many of the people have posted here Wendy cut my hair for many years.  She was more than just a barber however.  She was a good friend.  Both of our families have attended St. Francis of Assisi Church for many years.  She always made the church look beautiful with the passing seasons. While I was in the chair we would have nice conversations about the events and people we knew in common there.  For a long time she kept a photo of Will Canan, a student at St Francis who was fighting a long battle with brain cancer, in the barber shop.  She marveled at what a strong and positive young man he was.  Will  passed away this past Thursday.  May they reunite in God's kingdom.

With my deepest sympathy,

Phil Rossman

My sympathy to Wendy's family, both Hagan and Mussell.  When I first came to Wabasha Wendy was a little girl.  Dorothy and Larry were some of the first people I met, when I visited Dorothy, Wendy was just a little girl and such a joy to see.  She had a sparkle in her eyes and a smile that truly melted you heart.   Know that over the years she gave much joy to so very many people.

 

Wendy was my barber for many many years. She was a wonderful person, and it was always a pleasure to talk to her about her daughters and that sort of thing. We had always talked about her visiting our farm in Cook's Valley, and I feel bad that we never got that visit scheduled. I really miss you, Wendy.

Wendy was an amazing person always smiling and going out of her way to make others look and feel their best.  I was not a client but helped her daily for 5 years at the bank.  She made my day more than once and we shared stories about our familys oh and how much she loved her whole family.  Her memory will live on in the people that love her.  So sorry for your loss. 

 

 

Dear Jack, Kalli, and Nikki,   We were saddened to hear about Wendy.   She was a bright spot in many people's lives.  She was always willing to give of her self to make the world a better place.  She is at the ultimate place with Him and celebrating life daily.  You will be in our thoughts and prayers during this time and the years to follow.  Adjusting to the loss of a loved one is never easy.   

I am so shocked at the loss of a great lady. My condolences go out to your family.I had my haircut as a child by Wendy, and hadn't seen her in a while. My heart go's out to you and you family. 

I wish to express my sympathy and the sympathy of Jerry Monahan to the entire Hagan family.  Both Jerry and I were clients of Wendy at the barber shop in the Kahler Hotel and she always made us look better and feel better.  Never a time that we did not look forward to our chair time with Wendy.  God Bless Her And The Entire Hagan Family.

Hagan Family I was very sorry to hear of Wendys' passing. I had the pleasure of meeting her when the girls had their receptions at Willow Creek she was so kind and fun to work with she is one brides mother that I have never forgotten because of her kindness. Please know that you are in my prayers.

Respectfully

Sandy Lyon

Willow Creek Golf Course

Wendy cut my hair for many years. She always was upbeat talking about her kids and me talking about mine. Will miss her.
Take Care,
Ron
My deepest sympathies to Wendy's family. Wendy was my barber for many years. She was a dear heart and a very special person. Always a smile and genuine interest in how things were going. And it was evident from those 20 minute conversations while I was in her chair that she deeply loved her family. I will miss her and her words as I'd leave the shop after every haircut. "Have fun," she'd say. And she meant it.

Jack, Kallie, and Nikki,

I cannot begin to express the sadness I felt when learning of your wife and mother's passing.  Wendy was such an amazing, compassionate, kind hearted woman full of smiles, hugs, and humor.  I think of you and your family frequently, and want you to know that I will be thinking of all of you in days, months, and years to come. There isn't a time when I hear an oldies song that I don't think of Wendy and Kallie!  Please accept my condolences and prayers for you all through this difficult time!  Love you all more than you'll know, and will miss Wendy greatly! 

 

Jack...so sorry to here about your wife, Wendy...please have my sympathy....if you need to talk let me know...I'm a good listener...Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family....God bless....

Jack, Kallie, and Nikki,

I am saddened by the passing of the special woman in your life.  I will remember Wendy with that infectious smile and that warm greeting extended to friends and strangers alike.  She talked with great love and pride of her family and we celebrated the joys of life together as I sat in her chair.  Her joy for life will be greatly missed by all that she touched.  If I am fortunate to celebrate in the joys of heaven when I pass away; I am confident that Wendy will be there at the entrance to heaven, smiling and welcoming me with a "HELLO SILK", just as she did when I entered her shop.  God has a great addition to His Kingdom.     

 

Jack, Nikki and Kallie (& families) and Mussell families:
We are very sorry that you have had to say good-bye to Wendy so soon; 57 years of age is far too young to die! I have been on the receiving end of several cards with good wishes, chili and chocolate chip cookies!--Wendy was thoughtful! So many beautiful tributes to Wendy on this memorial site--Jack/girls/Mussells, you can be proud of the legacy your wife, mom and sibling leaves behind!

You are all in our thoughts and prayers--Zoei Dallman Pritchard (John and Joshua)

To the family of Wendy,

I am very saddened to hear of Wendy's passing, please accept my deepest sympathies.  Wendy was one of the nicest people I have ever  had the privelage of knowing. She always welcomed me into the barbershop with a smile and a heartfelt hello. After more than twenty plus years of friendship, I will miss her kindness.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Scott Dalquist

Dear Hagan and Mussell Families. My heart hurts for all of you and for myself. I grew up 2 houses away  from Wendy and spent my whole childhood being best friends with Wendy. I wanted to be at the Mussell's(lots of action) and she wanted to be at my house(less kids-much quieter). We climbed Coffee Mill Bluff together, went on plane rides with her dad, went on pontoon rides, climbed trees, swam in the river morning, afternoon and evening, had sleep overs, shared barbie dolls, had forts and got special cracker jacks at the taverns in Dumfries and Theilman and picked wild flowers in the Narrow Gauge road.  We went to almost everyday of high school together. I am so so sorry for your pain. She was so friendly to all and so much FUN! Her kind heart will be missed!

Much love,

DaDa(Lori Wodele Cashman)

 Hagan and Mussell family,       I would like to offer my deepest sympathy to all of you.  I was one of Wendy's classmates in Wabasha. My thoughts and prayer are with you.          Sherry (Hanson) Evers

Wendy was always a friendly and pleasant person. I was lucky to have her as my barber for many years.  I'll miss her as I know many others will also. 

We live at Charter House.  Wendy was our barber and our friend.  We loved her and we miss her.  Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Wendy was a faithful servant to the Lord, and we often met and chatted at Daily Mass.  She was so comforting to me as I experienced chemo and radiation, then found out later that she had to endure such a diagnosis and treatment.  I had the opportunity to comfort her, but prayed she could recover from all of this.  The Lord took her in His arms, and said "enough already" so we know she was well prepared to meet Him with great joy.  Our sadness in losing Wendy will be added to that of the family, but remember that Wendy will be embraced by the Lord with each prayer you pray daily.  God comfort you in your loss.  She suffers no more.  Gene and Marilyn Treder

  My husband and I, as well as our children and grandchildren, went to Wendy for haircuts  since shortly after she started.   She was a stable part of our lives.  We didn't just go to her because she did a good job but because she always wanted to hear about what was happening with us.  We shared births, graduations, weddings . .  in her family and ours.  I picture her pregnant and also later, when she was excited about her daughters getting married.  Her love for her family always shone through.  She was kind to everyone who came into the shop, making the day brighter for each one.  Together, we grumbled about politics and laughed about the funny things people sometimes do. She held a unique place in our hearts.  Life will never be the same.  But I say to you, Wendy's family, as she always said to me, "Take good care."

 

Helen Truxal

Jack, Nikki and Kallie,

Words can not express how deeply we feel your loss. Wendy was an inspriation to be around. There is little to be said in such a tragic circumstance. All of us will think good thoughts.

Morie Marcia Jaimee Jessie

Dear Nikki, and family...

What a sad day for you.  Your Mom was far to young to go to heaven.  God must have a mission for her.

Our sincere Sympathies.  She's always in your heart!

Jolie and Randy

 

Please accept our deepest sympathy.  Wendy was always very kind to our family, especially our Dad, Joe Canney.

The Canney Family

I will miss you Wendy you always were positive even in the darkest times Thank you for letting me be a part of your life and to the family I know you will miss her the most my love and prayers to you all

Mike

My deepest sympathy to Wendy's husband and girls.  I was blessed to have known her.  She was a delight, just a beautiful person.  I worked with her in decorating the church for special occasions which she headed and she was so talented in knowing just what to do and how she was going to do it. Worked beside her a couple of times as Hospitality Minister and she was so inviting and friendly to all.  She will be deeply missed by me and so many other people that were blessed to know her.  God rest her soul.  Eternal rest grant unto her O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her.  May her soul and the souls of all the faithful departed rest in peace. AMEN.