Wayland Harlow Eppard
Thursday, March 2, 1933
Date of Death:
Sunday, March 1, 2020
Age:
86 years old
Celebration of Life
Date: Sunday March 15, 2020
Time: 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Location: River Park Chapel at Macken Funeral Home [ view map ]
Burial
Location: Oakwood Cemetery
Thursday, March 2, 1933
Date of Death:
Sunday, March 1, 2020
Age:
86 years old
Thursday, March 2, 1933
Date of Death:
Sunday, March 1, 2020
Age:
86 years old
Wayland Harlow Eppard
Wayland H. Eppard, 86 (and 365 days thanks to leap year!), of Rochester, MN, died Sunday, March 1, 2020 surrounded by family at home.
Wayland was born March 2, 1933 in Rochester, MN to W. Hoyt and Tess (Campbell) Eppard. He graduated from Rochester High School in 1951 and enlisted in the United States Navy in 1952. He discharged from the Navy in 1956 and married Mary Amazeen on June 21, 1956 in Natick, MA. Wayland returned to Rochester, MN in 1986 where Mary would pass away from Lung Cancer in 1987. He retired from IBM in 1989 and married Barbara (Gardner) Beckel in 1991. Together they owned and operated the Chocolate Oasis in the Marriot Hotel subway from 1988 to 2000.
In addition to being a cancer survivor, Wayland was a tireless advocate for cancer patients and their families, working with the American Cancer Society and leading patient support groups for many years. Over time, the Chocolate Oasis became both Wayland’s place of business and a venue to interact with the many patients whose lives he touched. Later, Wayland joined North Central Cancer Treatment Group (NCCTG) as a patient advocate. He recruited fellow cancer survivors to help researchers, physicians, nurses, and other health care providers understand the importance of quality of life for those undergoing treatment and near end-of-life. In addition to his family, patient advocacy became Wayland’s passion. Wayland enjoyed watching Minnesota Timberwolves basketball, Minnesota Twins baseball, reading, and crossword puzzles.
The family would like to extend a special thank you to Dr. Kumar and the entire Eisenberg Dialysis team and the Visiting Angels staff, especially Julie K.
He is survived by his wife Barbara Beckel-Eppard of Rochester, MN; sons Jim (Linda) Eppard of Kingston, NY, John (Marge) Eppard of Vallejo, CA, and Jacob (Ashley) Beckel of Rochester, MN; grandchildren Joe (Melissa) of Connelly, NY, Josh (Tamra) of Glenmont, NY, Addilynn Beckel of Rochester, MN, and Elsie Beckel of Rochester, MN; two great-grandchildren, Maggie and Julian. He was preceded in death by his first wife Mary Eppard and son Ricky Eppard.
A celebration of life will be held on Sunday, March 15th from 1:00 to 4:00 pm in the River Park Chapel at Macken Funeral Home. A private burial will occur at Oakwood Cemetery.
Any memorials will be donated to Mayo Clinic Hospice.
Online condolences are welcome at www.mackenfuneralhome.com
Condolences
The family of Wayland Harlow Eppard has received the following condolences.
Barb and Family,
We send our sincere sympathy to you all. We knew Wayland through NCCTG and the Mayo Clinic Cancer Center in is role as patient advocate. Such a caring, kind, compassionate man. He has touched many lives. --Brian & Cathy
I am very sorry to read the news of the passing of your loved one. Wayland was an amazing man who I met through his efforts on behalf of cancer research advocacy. He was a gentle, charming and it was such a pleasure to have conversations with him. I will remember him for his ready smile and twinkle in his eyes. My sincere sympathy to you on the loss of this fine gentleman. --Gloria Petersen, PhD
This truly unique individual will be greatly missed love the sparkle in his eye and the giggle in his laugh will miss you Uncle Wayland!