Joyce Butler-Washington

Macken Funeral Home Memorial Photo
Date of Birth:
Wednesday, November 28, 1962
Date of Death:
Monday, June 5, 2023
Age:
60 years old

Visitation

Date: Friday June 09, 2023
Time: 1:00 pm - 2:00 pm

Location: River Park Chapel at Macken Funeral Home [ view map ]

Funeral Service

Date: Friday June 09, 2023
Time: 2:00 pm

Location: River Park Chapel at Macken Funeral Home [ view map ]

Livestream

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Macken Funeral Home Memorial Photo
Date of Birth:
Wednesday, November 28, 1962
Date of Death:
Monday, June 5, 2023
Age:
60 years old
Macken Funeral Home Memorial Photo
Date of Birth:
Wednesday, November 28, 1962
Date of Death:
Monday, June 5, 2023
Age:
60 years old

Joyce Butler-Washington

Joyce Anita Butler-Washington, Spotsylvania, VA, died Monday, June 5th, 2023, at Mayo Clinic in Rochester, MN.

Joyce was born November 28, 1962, in Philadelphia, PA to Heyward and Elizabeth (Parks) Butler. She graduated from Overbrook Senior High School in 1980 and University of Mary Washington in 2015. On September 30, 1992, she married Franklin D. Washington in Virginia Beach, VA. They were an active-duty military family in the United States Navy and lived in: Catania (Sicily) Italy, Saint Mary County, Maryland and returned to Virginia Beach, Virginia where they retired from active-duty service. The couple settled in Spotsylvania, VA in 2003 and attained a lovely permanent home for their family.

Joyce was a strong, ambitious, intelligent, loving, and caring parent who believed in service to the Lord and others. She volunteered to serve as a wartime ombudsman. Joyce dedicated her life to helping others and to be the best person she could be possible. Known as Momma Washington – she was quick with a smile, a story, a meal, and advice. Her motto that she said and lived by was “no child should go hungry or be without”.

She is survived by her husband, Franklin of Spotsylvania, VA, a daughter, Angela of New York, NY, sons: Antonio of Los Angeles, CA, Alexander of Rochester, MN, and Franklin Jr. of Virginia Beach, VA, along with 4 grandchildren. She is also survived by sisters: Mary Butler of Yeadon, PA, Jasmine Wardlaw of Los Angeles, CA, an aunt, Dorthey of Philadelphia, PA, an uncle, Rev. Willie Dillard of Queens, NY, and a host of nieces, nephews, in-laws, and cousins.

The Funeral Service will be held at 2pm CST Friday, June 9th, 2023, in the River Park Chapel at Macken Funeral Home. Visitation will be held one hour prior to the service.

“If you would like to donate to help the Washington family during this time for funeral expenses, please send your donation to Joyce’s daughter, Angela Washington at either:
  1.  PayPal: https://www.paypal.me/AngelaW298

Online condolences are welcome at www.mackenfuneralhome.com.

Condolences

The family of Joyce Butler-Washington has received the following condolences.

Dearest Aunt Joyce, how do I find the words to say goodbye. One of my earliest memories, was being a little girl, and telling you that when I grew up, I wanted to be just like you. As a teen, when you found out I had a passion for design, you encouraged it and even gifted me a desk with a built-in sewing machine. But that’s just the type of person you were. You were always so encouraging. Over the years we’ve had little talks here and there. You always let me know that whatever I was going through, I had the strength to conquer it. You’ve touched so many lives in such a positive way. Your energy, your smile, your presence. I know that they say, “everything happens for a reason.” But I feel like your time here was cut short. You had so many more lives left to touch. Thank you for your wisdom. Thank you for all your hugs. Thank you for being there over the years. It’s never easy losing a parent, especially at a young age. Thank you for checking in on me and my siblings. No matter what you had going on, you always managed to pause and connect. I will miss our girl talks. You had a seriousness about you that people knew not to play with. But you also had a goofy side. You commanded every room you walked in and it was filled with joy and laughter. You moved with strength and positivity. I wish I got to hear your voice one last time, but the timing was never right. I love you Aunt Joycey, forever and always. (My deepest condolences and sympathy to Unc Frankie, Tony, Ang, Alex, Lil Frankie, and the grands. I love you guys.)

Dearest Aunt Joyce, how do I find the words to say goodbye. One of my earliest memories, was being a little girl, and telling you that when I grew up, I wanted to be just like you. As a teen, when you found out I had a passion for design, you encouraged it and even gifted me a desk with a built-in sewing machine. But that’s just the type of person you were. You were always so encouraging. Over the years we’ve had little talks here and there. You always let me know that whatever I was going through, I had the strength to conquer it. You’ve touched so many lives in such a positive way. Your energy, your smile, your presence. I know that they say, “everything happens for a reason.” But I feel like your time here was cut short. You had so many more lives left to touch. Thank you for your wisdom. Thank you for all your hugs. Thank you for being there over the years. It’s never easy losing a parent, especially at a young age. Thank you for checking in on me and my siblings. No matter what you had going on, you always managed to pause and connect. I will miss our girl talks. You had a seriousness about you that people knew not to play with. But you also had a goofy side. You commanded every room you walked in and it was filled with joy and laughter. You moved with strength and positivity. I wish I got to hear your voice one last time, but the timing was never right. I love you Aunt Joycey, forever and always. (My deepest condolences and sympathy to Unc Frankie, Tony, Ang, Alex, Lil Frankie, and the grands. I love you guys.)







Joyce a beautiful soul, full of love and faith, ascended to heaven, away from us, but closer to God. I send my prayers, sympathy and love. 

Aunt Joyce,


I don’t have a ton of memories with you, but I remember the last time I saw you was at grandmoms funeral and you hugged me. I remember you sent me sundresses when I was 14-15 and to this day, I have kept them because they are so beautiful and I believe that one day, I’ll fit into them again lol. I remember getting this box of things that used to be Angie’s when she was a child for my hair, and my mom using them for me. I wish I had more memories with you, aside from being excited to see you. Your passing was so sudden, I didn’t think that I would cry the way that I have been, but I know you’re somewhere where grandmom and the rest of our angels are. I’m proud that you raised beautiful children to give you such a beautiful service and the strength to speak about how amazing you were and will always be. Rest in Heaven, we will deeply miss you. ❤️

With great sadness I send my condolences.  I am so sorry for your loss.  I am praying for everyone to have much comfort and peace.  I remember Joyce a lot from Overbrook High School.  She had such a beautiful smile and laughter.  God bless everyone.

 My heartfelt condolences to the family of Joyce Butler-Washington. You will surely be missed. Your bubbly personality was unstoppable. I'm sending my love to Mary L. Butler and her immediate family at this time with comfort and prayers. May our Lord continue to Bless you all.


Sincerely,


Leslie E. Hicks-Gorham 

Aunt Joyce,


I don’t have a ton of memories with you, but I remember the last time I saw you was at grandmoms funeral and you hugged me. I remember you sent me sundresses when I was 14-15 and to this day, I have kept them because they are so beautiful and I believe that one day, I’ll fit into them again lol. I remember getting this box of things that used to be Angie’s when she was a child for my hair, and my mom using them for me. I wish I had more memories with you, aside from being excited to see you. Your passing was so sudden, I didn’t think that I would cry the way that I have been, but I know you’re somewhere where grandmom and the rest of our angels are. I’m proud that you raised beautiful children to give you such a beautiful service and the strength to speak about how amazing you were and will always be. Rest in Heaven, we will deeply miss you. ❤️

 Joyce was a wonderful neighbor. We raised our children together so we know how wonderful she was as a mother. We knew also that she was a devoted wife. We will miss her.

 Please accept our deepest condolences on your loss. 


With love,


Aunt Dot


Neal


And 


Diana Cody

Good  afternoon sending our condolences to the family. Much love sleep in peace joice .

REST  IN  PEACE ?   COUSIN  YOU WE'RE  ONE OF THE BEST  YOU  WILL  ALWAYS  BE THERE  WITH  ME. PEACE AND LOVE 

Hey Joyce.  You was like a second mother to me especially the time when you lived in California. I miss talking to you and hearing your laughter.  You will truly be missed. 

I spoke to u  often and we would talk for 2 hours. We spoke b4 jhane wedding and u was hopeful.  You will be missed.  It hurts 2 say goodbye I feel it was too soon 







Joyce a beautiful soul, full of love and faith, ascended to heaven, away from us, but closer to God. I send my prayers, sympathy and love. 

  On behalf of. Aunt GeorgeAnn Butler and cousin Vonceil Butler   we extend our sincere and heartfelt condolences?❤️.          We are sadden and heartbroken. we are unable to be there in person however please know and believe we both are there in spirit, love and sincere prayer, ?❤️.                                     We're Thinking of You-all                there are times when the right words just don't exist...                     We hope it will bring you a little to know how much we are thinking of you all how much we care. ,?❤️.                                        But her memory lives on.              a legacy of love that will always be with you all, ?❤️.                       Hope that love surrounds you now and bring you peace.                One day at a time.She'll always be in your heart❤️                             The Lord is close to the brokenhearted  Psalm 34:18.                  With Love Always.                 Aunt GeorgeAnn Butler and Vonceil Butler,?❤️ cousin 

There are no words strong enough to express my grief, I give my condolences to all of you. You have my love and all of my support. May God be with you always and may my Aunt rest in peace. 


Love to Frankie, Tony, Angie,  Alex and to Frankie Jr.


From Robert. 

This is so unfair and so unreal. I pray my dear aunt is at peace. I’m so very sorry for your loss. Aunt Joyce always believed in me and encouraged me my whole life. I will miss her bold personality, her humor, her style, and her many life lessons. Love you Auntie. 

Cousin Joyce; my prayer is that the same bright vibrant smile you had here on earth is upon your face, now and forever. I pray that our family will have the love and peace we need during this time. May a special peace of comfort and love be with Franklin and my cousins ?❤️


                          -LaNasha ❤️

Cousin Joyce; my prayer is that the same bright vibrant smile you had here on earth is upon your face, now and forever. I pray that our family will have the love and peace we need during this time. May a special peace of comfort and love be with Franklin and my cousins ?❤️


                          -LaNasha ❤️

Cousin Joyce; my prayer is that the same bright vibrant smile you had here on earth is upon your face, now and forever. I pray that our family will have the love and peace we need during this time. May a special peace of comfort and love be with Franklin and my cousins ?❤️


                          -LaNasha ❤️

Cousin Joyce; my prayer is that the same bright vibrant smile you had here on earth is upon your face, now and forever. I pray that our family will have the love and peace we need during this time. May a special peace of comfort and love be with Franklin and my cousins ?❤️


                          -LaNasha ❤️

Frankie Washington and family. In loving Sympathy 


May you experience the constant comfort of God's love and peace. 


Let not your heart be troubled.  In my Father 's house are many mansions.  I go to prepare a place for you . That where I am, there you may be also. John 14:1-3


Love your brother 


Minister Jeff and Judy Gibson 


You are not alone.

Dear Frank. I am deeply saddened to hear of the passing of your lovely wife Joyce. You have my deepest condolences in this sad time.  Johnny U.

You have our deepest sympathy and unwavering support. Wishing our family peace, comfort, courage, and lots of love at this time of sorrow.


 


With Love,


Lonard and Briuana Daniels

My deepest condolence to the family of Joyce .May your happy memories give you peace and comfort. My thoughts are with you during this difficult time sending love and prayers..❤️❤️❤️??????


 

Oh I just sit and remember that golden  ? you always had, and would say boy when you going stop growing, Joyce you will be truly missed, and to Big Franklin and my cousins, I cannot imagine the pain and heartache you're feeling. I am praying for your peace and comfort. I know how much she mea t to you'll and our family again my ❤️  and ?  are with you'll at this time.


 


Love Shen ❤️ ? ? ? ? 


 


 

Sending our condolences and prayers& love. Sending Hugs to everyone. Know that we are here for you .Love Nakisha and Martha Gibson 

Every now and then God goes to his garden to pick one of his beautiful flowers...we don't know when or which one he will choose...but we do know that we won't be able to see and share that beautiful flower again. While we are in his garden...love and admire all those beautiful flowers in his Garden. Love you cousin Joyce...may you rest in Heaven amongst all those beautiful flowers ??????


 


Sending prayers and hugs to my upstate family ???

Condolence go out to my family much (Luv) sorry for your loss!!!

Condolence go out to my family much (Luv) sorry for your loss!!!

Dear cousin Joyce your energy was always bubbly, energetic and loving. You will be greatly missed I wish that I was able to come pay my last respects. Sleep peacefully.

With deepest sympathy the Daniels family,Joyce was a very loving and sweet person she will truly be missing ,may god give the family strength at this time .

Dear cousin Joyce your energy was always bubbly, energetic and loving. You will be greatly missed I wish that I was able to come pay my last respects. Sleep peacefully.

So sorry for your loss. My condolences and prayers for you and your family. Sending love and hugs 

All who knew my sister in law Joyce will agree that she was definitely a devoted mother and a protector of her husband and children.  I pray you find strength and comfort in God’s words as you morn the passing of your beautiful, wife and mother.  Much love, hugs and kisses.