I was Ethan's morning bus driver and was shocked to find out about this today. Ethan was a great kid on my bus and I will miss him. So sorry for your loss. 

We are so, so sorry for your loss of your wonderful son, Ethan.  I cannot imagine your pain.  Carrason is heartbroken over the loss of his good friend. He missed Ethan's friendship when we moved last year. Ethan was always a joy to have over.  He was the sweetest guy and always so easy going.  Our family loved Ethan and it was a joy and a privilege to have been a part of his life when we lived in Rochester.  We'd always tease him about something we knew he didn't like just so we could hear him say "I'm not a fan of that." I continually picture his adorable smile and hear his sweet laugh.  To know Ethan was to love him. Thank you for sharing him with us. He was a wonderful guy and we will miss him.  We are continually thinking of you all and praying for your family.   

Hello

I don't remember ever meeting Ethan but he went to the same orthodontist as me and my dad James Mueske told me that I meet Ethan one time. I wish I could remember this but unfortunately I don't. My dad has told me about how great you are Amy I just wish I could have been a good friend to Ethan.  I am sorry for your loss. 

Rindels family,

You do not know me, but my daughter was in treatment as the same time as Ethan. We have been through therapy and are still seeking help on this journey. My heart breaks for your family; it sounds like Ethan was a wonderful young man that had a heart of gold. I cannot imagine the loss that you feel, but do know the fear that you likely have experienced in recent months. Rest assured in the idea that Ethan is no longer suffering and is watching over you and your family in the days to come. Rely on those around you for support and always take the time to enjoy life. 

God Bless,

Ashley

Amy and family,

So very sad to hear about Ethan.  My heart is breaking just thinking about what you must be going through.  Stay close to friends and family.  Praying for you.

Jen Guenther and family

Amy,

I was so sorry to hear about Ethan's untimely death.  I can't imagine what you're going through right now and words are of little comfort at a time like this; yet, please know that there is One who can bring comfort.  I'm praying for you and your family that the God of all comfort will grant you His peace at this difficult time.

Please accept my sincere condolences.

Dawn

Wylie;

   I know I haven't talked to you in decades, but I remember all the fun we had playing softball, being coached by your dad in football, and the short time I lived across the street from you and Raegene.  This news breaks my heart.  I hope you're going to be OK.

Scott

Hello,

I knew Ethan through group. I used to tease him about his VOSS water. I'd banter with him about how I don't want one but I secretly do.

He was a smart funny and charming kid. It breaks my heart that he has passed, and I would do anything to bring him back. In DBT, he never did his homework. I had promised him the day he did it I'd draw him a smiley face. Last Monday he finally did it. I drew him a smiley face, and I will always remember his face turning all red and his smile as I slid the paper over. I'll probably cry every time I see VOSS water. Ethan will always have a special place in my heart, and I couldn't be any more sorry for your loss. I missed his funeral, but I've been thinking (and crying) over him. I wish you all of the love and support in the world, I am so extremely sorry.

Hi, Amy, I am so sorry to read about your son's untimely passing. I enjoyed hearing the stories you used to share with me about both of your kids. This is indeed a very sad time for you and your family. Take just one day at a time...I don't know what else to say. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers, Amy, and pray that God will get you thru this difficult time as well as all of the days ahead. Linda Harvey

Wrapping you tightly in prayers for all the moments ahead. Peace, strength, courage and love to all of you.

Dear Amy and Melia and Family,

   Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Amy and Family~

No words can describe how sad I am for your loss.  May God guide you through and may Ethan send you many reminders of how much he loves you.  Thinking and praying for you!

Melia,

I am thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.  I hope that over the days and weeks ahead you will be able to look back on the wonderful memories you shared with Ethan.  Those memories will keep him in your hearts and minds and he will always be a part of your lives.  May the care and love of those around you provide comfort and peace to get you through the days ahead.  

My deepest condolences,

Ms. Alissa Naymark

Friedell Middle School 

I had Ethan in my English class this year. From the beginning of the year, it was clear to me that Ethan had a very kind heart. I always felt like a winner when I could do or say something to make him laugh or smile. Class won't be the same without Ethan. My heart and prayers are with your family.

 I don't know your family and I didn't  know your son. But I want to share my condolences. I have suffered this type of loss as well and understand the confusion, despair, and sadness. If you're looking for a support group for just this type of loss please email me

Rip you were a cousin of a friend I wish I got the chance to meet you 

I am sorry for your lost. I don't know what I would do if it was one of my children. How did he did if I may ask? He looks so handsome. He is going to be with god and going to watch over all of us. I hope you feel better. I may not know you, but if you need to talk I am here. I don't know what your going through, but I am someone you can talk to.

May god's love be with you, ALL of you. my heart hurts

What a tragedy, my thoughts and prayers are with you, Amy and family.

Dawn McCullough 

I wanted to share my sympathy on Ethan's passing.  I enjoyed working with him as a 6th grader at Willow and I will miss his friendly face in the morning at passing time.  He never failed to respond with a "hi" when I greeted him!  Take care and know that I am sending you my thoughts and prayers.

Dear Amy,

My heart is with you & your family at this terrible time. I know how hard you have worked to help Ethan with his struggles in life - I know there can be no comfort at this time  but I hope you don't forget that you did everything you could for your beloved son.

My sincere condolences,

Gwen (parent DBT group) 

Rindels, Griffins, Wacholtzs and all the family, we are so sorry to hear about Ethan's passing. Knowing all of you, we cannot imagine the pain you must feel, but please know there is a Heaven, and we are thinking of you in this difficult time.

Richard, Mary and Lacey Freytag.

Hi I used to know him sorry for your loss?? but how did he pass away

I didn't really know him but he was my big sister laurens BFF and I have FaceTimed him with her before he was really nice I hope he likes it in heaven

so sorry for your loss, Amy!

Words can't express the heartache so many are sharing with you at this time. Prayers seem the only appropriate means to sincerely express my condolences, Amy. Saying one now and in the coming days and months. 

Thank you Ethan for letting me read Go Dog Go to you. Always needing to sit by me at a meal. For learning how to tape and mud Sheetrock at 4 years old and then need to swim in the tub for hours to get clean. For all the Nerf gun wars that you always won. For help in building a tree fort at the lake. For driving the boat and mini bikes and letting me know they needed more gas. For using up all my duct tape. For leaving tools lay in the yard and the only way to find them was with the lawn mower. For building snow forts and a fast sliding hill at the lake. For letting me sit with you deer hunting and asking what I brought for treats. For helping me pick out the right 4 wheeler to buy. For coming and staying at the lake when ever you had a break from school.  In all  thank you Ethan for 13 years of being in my life         Grandpa Wylie

What a heartbreaking loss. I am sending love and prayers for healing.

I know there is nothing I can say that will make the pain go away but I pray that peace from heaven will shower you today.

(My son is in 7th at Willow and knew Ethan)

Lots of love,

Amy Johnson

I didn't personally know Ethan, but it seems like he was a wonderful and talented person. All prayers go out to you and your family, R.I.P Ethan <3 - fellow student at Willow 

Dear Amy and Family, My heart aches for all of you and no words can express my sympathies. I am praying that God will give all of you strength, love, courage and support to endure the days that lie ahead. May Ethan find comfort in the arms of an angel. Peace be with all of you, Chris Hanzel

My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family my daughter knew your son and from her talking about him he was a GREAT kid! I am deeply sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy!

Honestly I  don't know Ethan , nor have I ever seen him . Reading the comments . He seems like a pretty chill person . I just wanted to say       RIP ETHAN , inshallah he'll go to heaven ??????

I wasn't really close with Ethan, but he was a pretty cool guy. In elementary school, I remember giving him all of my Pokèmon cards and teaching him how to play with them. After he had finally learned, we played a match together. He was a wonderful person, and I really wish I had gotten to known him better. Heaven has gained another angel. My thoughts and prayers are with you guys.

Ethan and I hadn't talked recently but all throughout elementary school we were best friends. He was an amazing person to talk to and hang out with. I will always remember him. 

Amy and Family,

Prayers for comfort and peace during this trying time to all of you.  

We are so sorry for your family's loss. Our thoughts are with you as you struggle through this difficult time.

I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of Ethan. I didn't know him personally, but he sounds like a wonderful boy who will be deeply missed. My deepest condolences and many prayers go out to the family of Ethan. 

Ethan Lee Rindels was the best person I have ever met. He was my absolute best friend who I told everything to even though we'd only been friends for a little over half a year. Ethan and I would always have to be moved away from each other in math because we always talked too much. I remember how almost every day after orchestra I would always see him standing by the door or sitting at the table near the stairs waiting for me so we would walk out of school together like we did every day. Ethan was the most caring person I'd ever met. We Facetimed/texted/Snapchatted  almost every day. I never realized how much someone can effect you. Ethan made me a better person and helped me through everything. He loved his girlfriend so much I was so proud of him. Every day almost he would come to school with either Monster, Voss Water (legit he had this everyday), and/or pretzels. I did everything I could to help him. Saying that and still feeling like I failed at doing the most I could. Now going to 5th hour and looking over to his empty desk is hard. I'd do anything to see him again. I miss him so much.

My deepest sympathy for your family. May he rest in peace, and be standing side by side with God our father.

I am so very, very sad for you.  My prayers are with you and will be with you. 

Learning about Ethan has deeply saddened us. During the darkness, may our heartfelt sympathy and condolences offer you and your family some comfort until his bright light of love is seen forever. Please never forget that his beautiful soul will forever live on in your hearts and your thoughts. 

My deepest sympathy, Ethan was such a sweet boy and he will forever be in our hearts.  Love to all in this time of pain.

Becca~

Prayers and thoughts with the family of Ethan. 

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your son, Amy and your family. No words can say how my heart hurts for you. Mother lose her son and I ache for you. Your friends and family will be a Solace to you know that they are there for you now and always. Use their strength to help you find yours in your time of need. My thoughts are with.

Sue

We will forever miss you Ethan 

You might not know me but that's okay 

To the family of the little man, I send my prayers n condolences. I lost my son March 26 & it's not an easy road ahead but I'll pray for God to give your family the strength to get through this awful time.

dear the rindels family . i know you dont know me but my brother used to go to school with your son . your son was a very loving and caring young man he put others before himself and he was very creative  im very sorry this happened to him  . i heard he was getting bullied and thats not okay at all he shoukd have never died . i hope those kids that bullied him live with regret and sorrow hor the rest of there lives  he needs justice  

I cannot imagine what you are going through right now, sending my deepest sympathies to the Rindless/Wacholtz families.

My heart breaks for your family and our community.  I will pray for your family.  May God bless you and keep you wrapped in his arms.  

Eric we're so sorry to hear of Ethan's passing. No words will help the pain you're feeling, but just know that you're in our thoughts and prayers during this devastating loss. God will undoubtedly keep Ethan by his side. Prayers once again. Steve, Kacie and baby Lucy

Dear Amy, Eric, and Malia, 

My condolences to you and your extended family. 

Prayers continue for you all. May you be comforted by our loving God and those who love and care for you.

May Ethan's memory be Eternal! 

Fr. Bernie 

I do not know Ethan or his family, but I cannot imagine losing a beautiful child so young.  Being a mother myself to a son I send you prayers and love.  <3

dear Jesus, Amy, Melia, Mavis Tom- our hearts are broken for you. Such a sweet boy, memories at bb with all y'all. Praying you through til you are reunited 

Amy & Family,

My deepest sympathies to you all! May he now find peace and may you all find comfort in the memories!! Sending thoughts and prayers your way!

With Sympathy,

Kelly (Stensrud) Wangen & Family

My condolences are with you and family. Let God's peace and comfort rest in your heart as well as the family. I'm saddened by the lost of a son that's so precious and is a big part of you. Allow God to continue to be with you and strengthen you the days ahead. Blessings, Adrian~

Amy, Cory, and family, 

Our hearts are broken for you.  I am so terribly sorry for all the pain you are in.  Heaven gained an angel, and you can be sure he will be watching over you and trying to help you through these trying times to come. Be strong and keep the faith, we are all thinking of you and praying for you. 

Dear Amy, Melia and the rest of the Rindels family:   Cora and I are so sorry to hear about Ethan and the struggles he must have been going through.  Our hearts are breaking for you.

Nancy & Cora

I never knew Ethan, but I just wanted to say Rip and my condolence are with the family?.  I just want all to know that he's in a better place, and I pray that God will give yall the strength to get through the pain. Once again may y'all have my sympathy and stay strong and be blessed.??

Dear Amy and family

I cannot even try to understand how you are feeling. Just know that my heart is breaking for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I pray that your son, Ethan, has found his peace and is spreading his beautiful smile and giving heart to the angels in heaven. He has found his wings and will forever be with you.  R.I.P. Ethan

Our deepest sympathies.  Prayers and blessings.

Our love,

Steve & Shelley Moore

Mason City, Iowa

I am sorry for your loss.  You will hear that for awhile and then it drops off.  I have lost a daughter age 16 to cancer 14 years ago.  I know the pain you have and will

have for a long time.  Just know that it is very hard right now and will be for awhile.  But just with time it will get easier.  Lynn Murray

My prayers go out to your family. I am very sorry for your loss...my heart goes out to you.

My daughter Precious was in art class with Ethan. She came home and told me warm stories about what a great kid he was and how they would joke and walk to the next class together. I can't begin to imagine the pain of losing a child, but please know that lots of prayers,love,and warm thoughts go out to your family,from ours. We too feel pain from your loss.

Ethan would always come to me and talk about what shoes he was going to buy. I would always say that he needed to wear the new shoes to school so that I could see them. He was supposed to show me now. :( 

I wish I got to know Ethan more. He seemed like an amazing person with so much talent. I only met Ethan through a friend and only hung out with him once or twice but he seemed so nice and sweet I wish he was still here to see all the support he has.

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of a loved one taken too quickly. I have Gone through so much also and the decision if suicide is the answer or not. It is NOT, and I'm terribly sorry that he thought it was there was so much he could have done and accomplished. I'm so grateful today that I am still living and I just wish that Ethan could have worked trough whatever challenges he may have been facing. With therapy and talking to a doctor. 13 is absolutely way too young to have your life taken away from you and I pray for the family, friends and everyone affected by the young mans death.  I am a sophomore at mayo high school so hearing about two deaths at my middle school really hits close to home and is eye opening for me and many others who have contemplated that decision, I really wish I knew him so I could've been there for him last night whether or not we knew each other. I want him to know that he was loved and cared for so much whether he realized or not. Again I am so so sorry about your loss may he rest in peace.!

I didn't have the pleasure of knowing this young man. Ethan sounds like an amazing person.  I am so very sorry to hear the news about him. I pray for you and your family. God bless you and comfort you in this difficult time. 

Eric and family I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your son Ethan. Prayers and hugs go out to you and your family during this most difficult time. May you lean on God and let him carry you with his strength.

Dear Amy, Eric and Melia:  My daughter Janet and I send our most sincere and heartfelt condolences.  Janet was in the fifth grade at Franklin with Ethan, and I worked in the library that year.  I remember a sweet young man with a beautiful smile and a kind heart.  We share your heartbreak.  Ethan will be sadly missed.  Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.  

Denise and Janet Koster

Sorry didn't mean to leave a question mark, made me seem rude.

I don't know the boy or his family but my heart goes out to all of you <3 so sorry for your loss, from what I've read in the last minute, he was nothing but a joy to be around, and brought so much happiness to people. Powerful person at such a young age to be able to do that. May he rest in peace ?

Eric, Amy and family I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. Prayers and hugs go out to you and your family. May you all be there to give each other strength and support to get through this time of sorrow.

Ethan was in almost all my classes last year me and him would always get in trouble in math for talking to much. He'd make me laugh everyday. Even when I was as in a bad mood or didn't want to talk. He was in my gym class this year me and him never would go swimming. So we'd just talk and mess around. I didn't know his middle name and all he told me was it was common and started with an L. He'd refuse to tell me. Whenever I passed him in the hall I guessed a random name. I miss him.

I love you all, and I'm so sorry for your loss.  I wish I could have been around to help Ethan out, he was truly a great kid. 

Not sure who he is or what happened. Someone just shared this and it popped up on my facebook but 13 is way to young to leave this world R.I.P Ethan! 

Love, support and prayers being sent to you. So many great memories with Ethan and his big smile. Loved seeing him out on soccer field, bringing his money in case a big card game came up and playing pool. All so precious. Take care and we are hear for you. 

I just wanted to say that I miss him already. He was in one f my classes and we would always mess around and laugh. He was such a great kid and s great friend. R.i.p Ethan 

Amy and family~

 My heart is breaking thinking about the sadness and the pain you all feel. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. ((Hugs)) to you all. If there is anything I can do for any of you please don't hesitate to ask. 

With Love,

Misty Murray and Family 

Dear Amy, Cory and Family, 

Amy and family,

So sorry to hear the news. Sending hugs and prayers to you all.

Amy, we are so very sorry to hear about Ethan. Our hearts are breaking for you all. Please know we are thinking of you all at this difficult time. Kris, Dirk and Lauren Stienessen

Amy and family-

We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time and are here to support you however we can. 

With love,

Emily, James and family 

Im so very sorry to hear this Ethan was such a good kid.. I remember the days he would come over and play with us on the trampoline and it will be very much missed.. I hope all are doing well 

To you sis, cory, and my niece melia. I mourn with you over this loss of a very precious little guy who I was blessed to have in my life and held in my arms a few hours after he was born. Love all of you and am blessed to have you in my life. Love abundantly to you all.

Amy, Cory and Melia - 

I am so sorry for your loss. Heaven gained a beautiful soul today.  Although he is gone, his story is not finished. May he love forever in your memories and hearts.

Our most heartfelt sympathy. 

-Chelsea, Madison and Kaelynn

Amy and family.  We are so very sorry to hear of Ethan's passing.  We'll always remember his smiling face and his adventurous ways.  You are in our thoughts and prays. 

Steve and Terry Fields 

Dear Amy and family,

I am very sorry for the loss of your dear son. I was Ethan's art teacher this year, and I absolutely loved teaching him. He was such a sweet kid and made me laugh every day. I will always remember him and his Monster energy drinks that we had a running joke about - "Oh Ethan, it's a Monster day for you today, eh? I think that means you'll be making some amazing art!" He brought light and laughter to my classroom, and was always a kid I could rely upon to help out, without me ever needing to ask. 

My thought are with you during this difficult time. 

Sincerely,

Sarah Michet

Amy - I'm so sorry to hear the tragic news of your son's death. I can't imagine the shock and heartbreak you all must be feeling, and am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Helen O'Connor 

Amy - I know you, Melia, Cory, and your mom and dad surrounded Ethan with your love and care.  I am so sorry for the heartbreak of your loss of your precious Ethan.  You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Much love,

Elizabeth

Amy, there are no words that I can say to make this any easier for you. Know you and the rest of your family are in my thoughts.

Mike Christopherson

Amy, Cory and Melia,

We are so very sorry to hear about Ethan.  He was a wonderful boy, always supportive to his teammates and friends, and Ian was lucky to spend several soccer seasons with him. He was a good friend and will be missed very much. 

Jeff, Jeannine, and Ian Hensley

Dear Rindles Family.

We're so terribly sorry for your loss.

 We're in hopes you find some comfort knowing others are keeping you close in thought and lifting you up in prayer during this very difficult time.

God's Blessings to you and yours.

With our deepest sympathy,

Kymnberly Koestering and Family 

My thoughts and prayers during this difficult time, Amy.  May you find comfort in God.

Pete Fischer

Amy, Cory and Melia

Angels are watching over you,  
Their wings wrapped gently around you,
Whispering you are loved and blessed.

Amy,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Eugene and Pam Kwon

I am so very sorry for the loss of your son. My heart goes out to you and your family.

Sincere regards,

Annissa Ulbrich

Amy, Cory and Melia,

Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel about Ethan's death.  He was a great young man, teammate and friend to my boys.  

With sincere sympathy,

Barb, Chris, Owen, Aidan, Everett, and Oliver

Amy I am so sorry for your loss.  My prayers and sympathy are with you and your family during this time.

We are so very sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family. 

Amy, Cory, and Melia, My heart is just breaking for all of you. I know the pain of losing a son. We all will be there for you during these terribly difficult days ahead. Love you!