Nicholas R. Miner

Sunday, May 4, 1975
Date of Death:
Thursday, May 29, 2014
Age:
39 years old
Nicholas R. Miner
Nicholas Reid Miner, age 39, died in his home on Thursday, May 29, 2014.
Nick was born on May 4, 1975, in Rochester, MN, and is the son of Bob and Carole (Fenske) Miner. He graduated from Lourdes High School in 1993. He had various jobs in Rochester (IBM, Pemstar, and then at Mayo Clinic as a Laboratory Technician).
In 2001, Nick moved to Iowa City, IA, to live with his long-time friends, Mike and Dave Brown. There, he met Missy Noel, and they were married in October 2008. Both worked at the University of Iowa Hospital. Missy passed away in October 2010. Nick then returned to Rochester to live.
Nick was an avid sports fan (particularly the Vikings, Twins, and Wild) and he loved fishing and hunting. He was an enormous fan of the Grateful Dead (Jerry Garcia), and took many road trips over the years with his friends to outdoor concerts. He had all the John Candy and Chevy Chase movies, as well as all episodes of the Sopranos — and could mimic every funny line from these movies. Nick enjoyed spending time with his many friends and his family — and he always had one or two pet dogs by his side.
Nick is survived by his loving parents (Bob and Carole Miner), brother (Mike Macken and sister-in-law, Becky), sister (Molly Williamson and brother-in-law, Mark), and sister (Martha Macken Elliott and brother-in-law, Brian) — all residing in Rochester, MN — as well as many uncles, aunts, cousins, nephews, and nieces.
Preceding Nick in death were his wife (Missy), maternal grandparents (Bette and Durward Fenske) and paternal grandparents (Ken and Mae Miner).
Memorials are suggested to the donor’s choice or any organization that helps to address drug abuse.
Services along with a visitation will be held at Macken Funeral Home River Park Chapel, Rochester, MN on Friday, June 6, 2014. Visitation will take place from 4:30-6:30 PM at Macken Funeral Home River Park Chapel. There will be a Memorial Service from 6:30-7:00 PM, with a lunch following served in the funeral home dining room.
Condolences
The family of Nicholas R. Miner has received the following condolences.
Dear Bob and family,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss of Nick. Losing a child is very difficult. You lose a part of yourself. I didn't know your son Nick, but I do fondly remember growing up next door to you Bob, in Hawley. The pain of loss is very difficult. Always remember the good times you had with your son, and time will gently begin to heal your heart. Take care of yourselves and remember that your friends and others care. You are in my prayers.
Bobbi (Roberta Pettersen)
With fond memories of Nick as my fourth grade student, I send love and prayers to you all.
Dear Miner Family,
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Nick's passing. I was Nick's 6th grade teacher at Saint Francis of Assisi School. Seeing Nick's picture brought back those memories as if it were yesterday. I am sending prayers and blessings for all of you.
Sincerely,
Robin Erickson
We were so sorry to hear about the loss of Nick. We read the beautiful and touching story your mother wrote about him and his life struggles. It was a wonderful tribute to him...
We are sorry we can't be with you all today to celebrate his life but please know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.
May all the fond memories you shared help you deal with his loss. Sending hugs to you all.
Dear Miner Family:
I'm so very sorry for your loss. Our family too, lost a loved one the same way. My heart extends it's love and sympathy to you and I pray for strength, peace, and comfort for you. It's been 12 years for me, but this story brings it all back afresh. I shed tears for your loss and my knowledge of the pain and sorrow inflicted on you. Always talk about Nick and the wonderful human he was. That helped us. Sending you so many of my thoughts, prayers and love. Hugs!!
With heartfelt sympathy,
Michele
I am so sorry for your loss, Nick was a funny guy and his laughter was contagious!!! We use to walk to school together my brother and I and Nick when we were just in kindergarten!!! He was loved by many! May he rest in peace.
Dear Bob and family,
My deepest sympathy to you as you grieve your lost son. It is hard to imagine the pain of such a loss. My heart goes out to you.
Elizabeth Atly aka Beth Thysell
Carol, Bob, Mile, Molly and Martha,
I was so sorry to hear about Nick! My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I remember him as a fun, energetic, nice kid. It is never easy to lose a family member. May you hold your good memories close to your heart during this difficult time. Take care.
Carol, Bob, Mike, Molly, Martha -
No parent should have to experience the loss of a child. My mom lost her son in 2006 and I shared in her pain, but only as a sister can, not being a parent myself. I am deeply sorry for your loss and my heart goes out to you both.
Know that Nick is now at peace without worry or trials. This brought me a bit of comfort when we lost Lance. Replay memories in your mind and speak of him often, keeping him alive in your hearts. His presence is gone but he will be with you forever in your minds, hearts, and souls.
There are no words at this time that can touch the pain and sorrow you feel. I have asked God to bring you all some semblance of peace with your heartfelt loss, as only He can.
Dearest Bob, Carol, Mike, Molly and Martha,
I am so saddened to hear of Nick's passing. I will always remember him as a wonderful boy, smiling, laughing and playing. May you be comforted knowing he is no longer suffering and is being held in God's loving embrace.
With prayers and sympathy,
Joyce Rosenblad
Carol, Bob, Mike, Molly and Martha,
My deepest condolences to all of you over the loss of Nick. Prayers are sent your way that you will find some peace with your memories and a continued strength and love as a family.
My very best,
Becky Harnack Pfaff
Bob and Carol,
You have our sympathy on the loss of Nick. It is very hard to lose a child, very difficult.
May you remember the good times you had with Nick. You are in our prayers.
Sincerely
Rod and Sharon
Nick, from the moment I met you in the MML lab, I liked you. You had a quick smile and were always laughing--I appreciated that. Our love of the Dead helped us to become fast friends. We spent many occasions over the years watching Vikes games, listening to great music, and laughing. You had a heart of gold and loved your friends and family dearly (including the 4-legged ones). That is how I will choose to remember you. I hope you are finally at peace.
Dear Carol, Bob, Molly, Martha and Mike. I'm terribly sorry for your loss. I can not believe Nick is gone.
He really was a wonderful boy. I always remember him with a smile on his face.
Love,
Al.
Dear Bob, Carol, Mike, Molly, and Martha,
I am so sorry to learn of Nick's passing. I have such fond memories of Nick's sense of humor and his quick smile. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Sincerely,
Tom Pathoulas
I worked with Nick for about six months when he was in treatment for opiate addiction. I remember him fondly, and loved having the opportunity to work with him. He was always smiling, happy, and had a great sense of humor. He wanted to better his life, and he made a lot of progress. I will miss him.
Blessings for all your family. My most sincere condolences.
Wanda Murphy
No one but another parent can understand this unbearable pain you are going though. My heart breaks for you. I too lost my daughter the same way. I know you are in a blur and will be for a long time. The emotions you are having are like a roller coaster. But know the pain will soften with time. Take it one minute at a time. Your mind will eventually except this, but your heart never will. The unconditional love you have for Nick will never go away. When the time is right you will need someone to talk to that understands your pain and sorrow. Please to not hesitate to call me. God Bless you on this journey. A journey no parent should ever have to go through. In God's peace and love.
With my sincerest sympathy.,
Sharon Schlingmann 507-951-4744
507-951-4744