Dear Hicks family,

My heart goes out to you in this time of sadness, I have been away from Minnesota for over 20 years but in my heart I will always be a Hicks and share your loss and sorrow. I have heard so many remarkable things about Carla and the beautiful son she raised. Words are dificult to come up with for the sadness I feel for all of you. My love to you all.

Dawn Hicks Valenzuela

My condolences to Jordan and the Hicks Family.  I have met only a few people as strong as Carla Hicks in my life.  She accepted many trials from God, but was able set them aside and carry on.  In 35 years of public education and 49 years volunteering in Loyola's Athletic Department, I have never witnessed the close bond between a  mother and a son.  Carla established in her son the values she was obviously taught by her parents.  It seems as if God's plan was for Carla was to raise Jordan to be a loving, hardworking, successful person.  Since she accomplished this and has suffered so much, God decided to call her home.  She will continue to care for and guide Jordan through the many successes ahead for him.

 I was honored to meet Carla when my daughter played in a basketball fundraiser for her.  I was also greeted by Carla when i attended the rac.  She always had a warm inviting smile.  She will be missed dearly.  God Blessings+

Thinking of you Mary and Gary at this time of your loss. We didn"t know Carla that well because she was so young,but she must have been a very strong person. Sending our prayers and love your way and keeping you in our thoughts BEST WISHES! Doug and Diane.

My deepest sympthay to the family of Carla Hicks.  My deceased husband was a cousin to Carl's mother Doris Jensen Hicks.

Dear Hicks Family - 

My name is Erin and I had the privilege of getting to know Carla through the RAC.  I have 2 small adopted children and we would stop by to visit with her on our way into the RAC and out - oftentimes her smile and kindness were the highlight of our day.  

Although I met her only 4 years ago, watching her walk through her cancer journey with such dignity, acceptance, and grace was an honor.  We would often talk about Jordan and she would share (with immense pride) the amazing things he was doing at Loyola.  Carla was also an immense help to me in navigating the sometimes tricky waters of being a white mother of kids with a different skin color.  She understood me in ways that many never will.  

I have missed getting to see her smile but know now that she is at peace.  She will always be an amazing woman with ferocious determination, a warm heart, and a ton of spunk.  

Well done, Carla.  Well done.  

My sincerest condolences to you all, especially Jordy.  

Erin 

To the Hicks family,

Although I did not know Carla as a friend of Sue's I heard many wonderful things about her as a mother, sister and all around good person.  May all of you be at peace as she has now returned to her home where she is free.  As the days go by may you have continued strength and renewal of life to hold her memory in high honor.

Blessings,

Jordan and family,

Sending out my condolences for the loss of my childhood friend.  Carla and I grew up in the same neighborhood and shared many beautiful memories.  Carla's beautiful smile is what sticks with me the most. 

I'm very sorry for your loss.

Pam Kolar

My sincerest condolences to Jordan and the rest of the family.  

Carla was a great person that I totally respected and always enjoyed talking to.

She will be missed by many but never forgotten.  Carla was a truly special person.

Thoughts and prayers

Kirk Thompson

Dear Jordan,

Our hearts are heavy with sadness for your loss.  Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. 

Sincerely,

Igoni and Teresa Dokubo

I'm so sorry to hear of Carla's death.  Her courage was amazing to hang on as she did to see her son graduate from college. 

I have so many fond memories of your family, especially Jerry (Bubba in my day) and your dad and mom.  They were some of the greatest people I ever knew.  How tragic it is that this terrible disease has struck your family again, and all I can say is I'm very sorry it has to be this way.

Love to all of you in this time of sorrow.  I'm thinking of you and hope you can all find strength from each other.

Craig

I am so very sorry for your loss.  You have all had a great deal of loss and you are a stong family.

I am a friend of Sue's and I did also know Jack.  Softball days.

I leave you with my heartfelt condolences, if there is anything you need help with, please let me know.

Carla is in the loving arms of our savior Jesus Christ.

My prayers and thoughts are with the family. I had the honor to care for Carla a short time. She will be missed.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of loss.  I never knew Carla but being she is Mary's sister, she must have been as warm and wonderful as Mary.  Please take car of you!   Barb

Carla always had a great attitude, and a wonderful smile as my husband and I  walked thru the doors at the Rochester Athletic Club, she was an asset to the club and we will miss her!! Our prayers are with her and the family at this very difficult time.

Pam Kennedy and Michael Mullenmeister  

My prayers go out to all of you. I remember when Carla was   born and how excited you all were.  She was always so sweet and kind. She will surely be missed. My heart goes out to all of you and Jordan should be proud of the great mom she was.

Jordan and Family, I knew Carla many years ago through Children's Home Society. She was such a kind hearted person, who always had a smile on her face! Jordan, you were the pride and joy of your mom! She was so proud of you and what an outstanding young man you have become. She fought a long hard battle but in the end her body grew tired. Please know that she will always be with you in your heart and memories. Hang onto those memories as you face the difficult days ahead. God bless the family of Carla.

My condolences to you, Jordan, as well as the rest of Carla's family.  I graduated from HS with your mom and can only imagine that she continued on after that time being the same great, warm hearted person she was as a teenager.  Keep up your great momentum, make her proud, and surround yourself with your family and friends whose memories will give you comfort. So sorry for the loss of your mom, sister, friend. 

Sincerely, 

Ellen Huselid Milad

Jordan and the Hicks family, I worked with your mom ( and you too Jordan) for many years at CHSM. She was a wonderful person and I know how much all of you will miss her. Be comforted that she is at peace and you will always have her with you in all of your hearts. Jordan go on and make your Mom even prouder with all the great things you will do with your life. My sympathy ot all of you.

Sincerely,

Sue Edge

Jordan and all of Carla's family,

You are all so lucky to have had such an AMAZING woman in your lives. I am proud to call her my friend. It is so sad that she was here for such a short time but God must have other plans for her. I know grandpa Jack will be happy to see her :)

I wish there was anything I could do to help ease the pain that you are all feeling. I will continue to pray for all of you.

Sincerely,

Robin