Dear Eiden Family,

I was a public school kid, but was blessed with the gift of knowing Gene through the Traditional Choir at Pax Christi in the mid-90s.  He taught me as much about musicianship in brief, 30-60 second discussions and through his kindness of heart than I learned in 5 semesters technical critique in flute and voice lessons at St. Ben's.  

When I think of Gene, the first sound that comes to mind is his laugh -- followed very closely by one of his beautiful trumpet flourishes -- but the laugh unquestionably comes first to mind. 

What a blessing this man has been to his school, civic, military, and faith communities.  God's speed.

KerriAnn Mahon 

He was a staple of Lourdes.  I first saw him in grade school when he came over, and still remember the ‘Little Red Riding Hood’ rendition. I fondly remember marching band and the trips to neighboring cities for their parades. It made military training easier for me. I even made the drill and ceremony team. He also performed at my son’s military burial. He deserves all the honors he has received.  

Dear Eiden family,

Please accept my sincere sympathy and prayers in your loss of Gene.   He was a wonderful friend when Chuck and I taught with him at Lourdes High School.  He will always be remembered for the joyful and uplifting music he created.  

May he rest in peace

Arlyn Gagnon 

I can see Gene in heaven with David telling him all the jokes David would bring home to me. God bless Gene, Frannie, and the family. Please know that you are all in my prayers for peace. 

He was a staple of Lourdes.  I first saw him in grade school when he came over, and still remember the ‘Little Red Riding Hood’ rendition. I fondly remember marching band and the trips to neighboring cities for their parades. It made military training easier for me. I even made the drill and ceremony team. He also performed at my son’s military burial. He deserves all the honors he has received.  

My condolences to Fran and the family. Mr Eiden was not only a great musician and band director but a wonderful person. My time in the Lourdes band is a very happy memory to me. 
My heart goes out to you. Grace be with you. 
Sincerely, Mary Ann (Riley) Gunderson

My condolences to Fran and the family. Mr Eiden was not only a great musician and band director but a wonderful person. My time in the Lourdes band is a very happy memory to me. 
My heart goes out to you. Grace be with you. 
Sincerely, Mary Ann (Riley) Gunderson

To the Eiden Family  - The Zimmermans (Sheri '70, Terry '72, Dan '73, Lori '80, David '83) send our deep sympathies -but also our celebration of the generosity, humor and talent that Gene Eiden shared with us and so many others for so many years. 

Marching band, the Hi-Lighters, boys choir, and the "Man of La Mancha orchestra" (first musical LHS had staged in years). He even organized a mini-band to greet the cross country team when the bus rolled up to school after winning State in '72.  (Back when few expected much hoopla over X-country runners). 

One meagre example of the immense impact Mr. Eiden had: He succeeded in convincing a small group of us HS boys to learn the 4-part harmony of Barbershop Quartet singing --In the era of Rock & Roll this was something we believed was very uncool.  Not only did Gene eventually convince us to 'sing barbershop' for some retirement homes, but - to my amazement-  several of us broke out singing "My Evaline" in 4-part harmony walking down the sidewalk in front of Dayton's one day.  And he wasn't even with us!  OK, not his biggest legacy, but it counts.

In gratitude for all that was Gene Eiden,

    Terry Zimmerman,  LHS 1972

What a beautiful service for my uncle and Godfather today. Truly an honor to be there. Love and blessings to Fran and my cousins. What you may not know is my name is Jean Frances named after Gene and Fran! God is great!

Our sincere condolences to Fran and family. Only Covid kept us from the services. 
So many great memories of this great man. 
You are in our thoughts and prayers. 

Our sincere condolences to Fran and family. Only Covid kept us from the services. 
So many great memories of this great man. 
You are in our thoughts and prayers. 

For the family of Mr. Eiden, please accept my most sincere condolences. 

Most people can name the one teacher that had a profound impact on their formative years… Mr. Eiden was mine… he cared about each and every one of his students… and that care gifted everyone he touched the beautiful music that WAS his beautiful spirit. And I was beyond blessed to not only be one of those students, but to be gifted that beautiful spirit into my adult years as well. And for those memories, those life lessons, for all the fun and humor, the endless support, and all the beautiful music he gifted to my life, which was part of my journey in becoming a musician myself, I will be forever grateful. 

Mrs. Eiden, please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family, and I sincerely hope your beautiful memories, along with the fond memories of all of us that he touched and continue to carry with us each and every day, bring you and your entire family comfort, and some peace as you walk through this one day at a time...

“…They lifted up their voice accompanied by trumpets and cymbals and instruments of music, and they praised the Lord saying, “He is good for His lovingkindness is everlasting… “ Chronicles 5:12-13

Rest in everlasting and gentle peace Mr. Eiden… and thank you.

Rebecca Liarakos Raymond

Lourdes Class of 1987

My sincere condolences to the family of Gene Eiden.   I played trumpet and had many opportunities to perform with Gene.  Gene was always an uplifting person.  His humor and trumpet playing will be missed.  

My sincere sympathy on the passing of Mr Eiden. What great musician, leader, teacher , and friend to all. I feel blessed to have been

one of his students!

  Karl Kuhn class of 61

I was blessed to be in Mr Eiden’s band from 1979-1983, just four years but made a lifelong impression on me.  He became the gold standard to strive for throughout my career. Best teacher I have ever had.  He showed us how to truly love what you do, how to be passionate about your work, be a part of the community. And we had such fun being a part of his world. 

I remember the importance he placed on playing at Memorial Day ceremonies—playing at those events taught me the significance of honoring our Veterans. And I will always hold in my heart the day he played Taps at my Dads service.

His joy, his commitment, his kindness will stay with me and I hope I have been able to pass that along in my life. He taught us well and he will be so missed. We were so blessed to know him. Sending love to his family and thankfulness.

My heartfelt condolences to Fran, her children and extended family.  I cannot imagine how much you will miss such a remarkable man with whom you were blessed to share many rewarding and happy years.

i remember the band room as a happy and safe place.  I was never in the band, but rather in choral music. Fran was our choral director at that time.  I know that I was inspired to sing by both Fran and Gene.  And sing I did for decades!  My senior year I really wanted to play in the band.  There was a spot open to play bells.  Unfortunately Tom Krebsbach beat me to it! 
I know the inspiration to nurture my three sons in music came from Mr. Eiden.  They all started with piano, and then moved to band instruments -two with trumpet & euphonium and one in percussion.  Hundreds of youth found enrichment and pure joy in music because of Mr. Eiden.  What a legacy!

And I too will never forget Mr. Eiden presenting my mother and I the flag at my father’s graveside service in 2013 after playing Taps at age 83. Just a remarkable man.  No one who knew him will ever forget the gifts he shared with us all every day of his life.

Karen Kruse Heater  Class of ‘65

Dear Fran, Wayne, Kate, and Carol.

So sorry to hear of Gene's passing. He was a great man always had a kind word and encouragement for everyone. 

I had the privilege to not only call him a teacher but also a friend. As a veteran myself Gene meant so much to all veterans. He never turned down a request to play taps for a veteran on there send off 

He always remembered the fun times like when we papered your house. Or the many concerts we had and always talked about my dad hooking up the air horns. He was someone who meant so much to everyone. God is gaining music to last forever. 

Dear Fran & family,

What a wonderful man has gone to heaven. Boyd & I so loved his always cheerful demeanor & reveled in his “Dad Jokes” Gene has left such a legacy, every thing to be so proud of! Have such fond memories of all the Thanksgivings & holidays spent together as well as Weddings & other family gatherings.

My condolences to all, as well as blessings to each & everyone.

Love, Diana Uppman

To the Eiden family,

My heart broke when I heard of Gene's passing! When I came to Rochester I. 1999 to teach 5-8 band in the Catholic schools, Gene was always happily willing to help me get the 5th graders started in band. The kids were always so enthusiastic about band after meeting with him! He was a fantastic musician to play with and an awesome educator! He will be dearly missed in the musical community of Rochester. Heaven has gained an incredible lead trumpet! Thank you all for sharing Gene with our community all these years! He truly was a treasure!

Wendy Hanson

Geno was like the beacon in a lighthouse: Always shining, always there.

Dear Fran and Family,

As a former student of Mr. Eiden, I wanted to reach out and say how wonderful he was as a teacher and mentor. As a trumpet instructor he was bright and engaging: a master of his craft who imparted a spark of his passion to everyone he worked with. Thank you sharing Gene and his joy with so many.

Sincerely,

Will

Dear Eiden Family,

I was so sorry to hear about Mr. Eiden's passing.  He was such a large part of my life even before I was in high school as he taught all of my siblings before me.  (He had a Burt in his band every year from 1974 - 1993.)  I remember being in grade school watching the band march in parades and marching in place as they went by pretending I was playing an instrument.  Then, when I finally got into high school, I remember every open mod being spent in the band room practicing my sax, doing homework, or just talking with friends.  Often, Mr. Eiden would join in these talks and make us all laugh.  He encouraged me to try the bari sax, which led me to playing with the Hi-Lighters and having some of the best nights of my high school career playing "gigs" with them.  He was always so encouraging and positive, and you could see the excitement he would have when one of his students found their love of music.  After high school, I would see him around town or at church.  He would always ask how I was doing, what all of my siblings were up to, and if any of us were still playing music.  Last year, he honored my family by playing taps at my father's funeral.  There are so many memories I have - way too many to share here.  Please know that he is forever in my heart and he will be greatly missed by all who ever met him.  

Peace,

Shannon (Burt) Plower, Class of 1993

Terry and I wish to express our condolences to Kay and her family. As a Lourdes Band Director, Mr. Eiden was always a “class act”! Many years ago, we were members of the Mayo High School marching band. It was nice to see Mr. Eiden respect our band and our Director over the many years that we marched in parades together.  He did many wonderful, musical events for our city and left a great legacy behind. We are very sorry for your loss. 

He was a staple of Lourdes.  I first saw him in grade school when he came over, and still remember the ‘Little Red Riding Hood’ rendition. I fondly remember marching band and the trips to neighboring cities for their parades. It made military training easier for me. I even made the drill and ceremony team. He also performed at my son’s military burial. He deserves all the honors he has received.  

I was sad to hear about Mr. Eiden. My condolences to Frances , Wayne, Kate, Carol, grand and great grand children.

I’ve looked back on my 4 years that I was in the band at Lourdes with Mr. Eden as my band director. He was dedicated and put his heart, soul and also a few corny jokes (He always enjoy his own jokes) into directing us. He directed many concerts, pep bands, state tournaments bands, graduations and what I liked best of all, summer marching band over the years. What most people didn’t see was his efforts behind the scenes setting up and tearing down after all the band activities, what dedication.

I learned from Mr. Eiden respect and courtesy. When the Lourdes pep band played at a Lourdes sporting events, he always had us play the opponent’s school song, at least once during the game. That was class.

When I heard of Mr. Eiden’s passing I thought Lourdes and Rochester has lost their “Music Man”. But, then, there are the thousands of his students and fellow musicians that he has taught and inspired over the years carrying on his great enthusiasm for music.

Thanks for sharing Mr. Eiden and God bless him and his family.

Thomas Woodruff

Lourdes Class 1973

I was fortunate to play with Gene in several "old time" bands and sub in the Notochords a couple times.  Gene was a genuine, warm, caring person who always took time to ask, "How's it going?"  A fine musician and educator who felt that exposing and nurturing young musicians was one of his important jobs.  I'm sure thousands of alumni are appreciative.  Thanks Gene for all you did.

Carol, so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. Hugs to you and your family.

Pam and I were fortunate to have Fran and Gene as our neighbors for more than 35 years.  We had great visits over the back fence and will always remember Gene's laugh.

Gene got me to pick up the euphonium again after 25 years away from playing.  He led the "2nd Time Around Band" in the Rochesterfest parade in the mid-90s and got me to join.  Then he encouraged me to join the newly formed Rochester Community Band.  I have Gene to thank for the last 30 years of making music with Rochester Community Band, Civic Music Concert Band, and at church.  What a gift to me to play my horn again.

Pam and Ken Ikier

This man was larger than life to me in high school.  He was an amazing band teacher who brought me from last to first chair in French horn, let me try other instruments, and play the bells in the marching band when my braces hurt too bad to play the horn.  He encouraged me to try out for the dance band, and three amazing years were spent in the Highlighters, practicing, playing gigs, and spending many hours at Denny's.  But, his impact on me went much further when I found myself in trouble as a senior, and he turned into a solid confidante who walked with me through some pretty dark times. His advice will be forever cherished, and he wiped away many tears and helped me stay strong.

To so many of us, he was much more than a teacher.  He was a mentor, a teacher in a different sense, a confidante, and a friend as well grew older.  

Mr. Eiden - you will be forever missed, forever cherished and forever remembered.

When i was a sophmore at Lourdes,,, 1962, i thought i knew how to play a bass drum....i guess i didn't have the beat...Mr Eiden made me come down to the podium and direct,,,while he played the bass drum!!  never forgot him...he was a great teacher.....  also danced to his music at various dance halls...great musician....

Dear Eiden Family, Please accept my sympathy and support at this time.  I was fortunate enough to re-connect with my classmate Wayne in 2022 at our 50th Lourdes High School Class Reunion.  In the Fall of 2023 at the LHS 10th Anniversary Celebration Mass, I was able to talk with Mr. and Mrs. Eiden and Kay.  I just wanted to send you a note of thanksgiving and celebration for Mr. Eiden's incredible example and witness for Catholic education.  He was always there!  From marching band to the Highlighters...from practices to parades...from before school until way after school, Mr. Eiden was always there!  He was generous, dedicated, and positive.  Lourdes and Rochester were well-served by Mr. Eiden's gifts, talents, and leadership.  His life continues to inspire me in my own ministry within Catholic, Jesuit high school education.  I hope you are finding the love and support you need at this time.  Sincerely, Father Tom Manahan, S.J. - Lourdes High School Class of 1972

I am truly saddened to hear of the passing of this great man.  Rochester has lost one of its best.  And yet, despite my disappointment, I find myself smiling every time I think of Gene and any of my past interactions with him.  That's what he does for people, that's what he always did for me.  No matter the situation or the circumstances, I walked away from every engagement with him better-off and smiling.  Gene had a special talent for bringing Joy; I would get giddy like a child any chance I had to perform with him, because I knew I was in for a good time -- even that one time he had me playing Polka music!

As with too many people in our lives, I can attest that we rarely get to spend enough time with the right people.  I was just asking about Gene the other day--a sure sign I hadn't kept in touch enough.  Gene, we will all miss your endearing good nature, the generous way you were always willing to help out (like letting me borrow your horns when needed), the quiet dignity when you played Taps at a memorial service (and man did you look good in uniform!), the energy you displayed leading a band, and the endless supply of jokes and one-liners you could peel off in a conversation.  You made every occasion better; you're one of the good guys.  I'm sure there's some good laughter and music being heard in Heaven right now.

Dear Fran, Kay, Wayne, Carol, & family,

We are fortunate to have many great memories of Gene. These started in the 1960s at St. Pius X Church/School... then fast forward to decades of school, community, polka, choir, band (including Highlighters), trips, events, programs, and Masses.

Our parents started by igniting a fire for the love of music in us and Gene then helped in many respects by fanning the flames and pouring gas on it!

A favorite quote from Mr. Eiden (that has been shared countless times over the years) goes something like: “It is especially important that the beginning and the ending of the song/music is well done. Even if a few mistakes should happen along the way, a great beginning and ending is what folks will remember. When they hear that beautiful last note... everyone claps.”

In addition to all the stuff in between, Gene knew the importance of beginnings and endings. This of course led to the times Mr. Eiden would have us practice beginnings and endings over and over and over again in band rehearsals :-)

As witnessed, Gene practiced his own advice. For the Otto family in 2022, Gene volunteered to lead a military color guard where he then played taps after the conclusion of our Dad's funeral. In our mourning, this gesture was an incredibly memorable and heartfelt way to send off Dad from this world.

Mr. Eiden has helped teach us how to live the stuff in between (including with a special emphasis on beginnings and the endings). Christ claimed Gene's soul on Christmas Eve day... just in time for his (Christ's) birth. Fitting – as a final taps on Earth to his family and all of us. RIP.

The Otto siblings (LHS '70s and '80s: Eileen, Steven, Richard, Carl, Gretchen, Carolyn) and Otto Parents (Joan and Bill [2022])

Dear Fran and the entire Eiden family, 

We are so saddened to hear of Gene’s passing. He was an amazingly kind and compassionate man. We were blessed with being neighbors to Gene and Fran on 34th St for the past 30 years. We knew of his accolades as a band teacher, but what we will most remember is his chipper face and smile as he walked past our home always stopping to chat or tell us a funny joke or to see him zipping down the street early in the morning in his minivan to go to work to help others. He was truly the kindest man we’ve ever met and we are so happy to have shared in a neighborhood gathering with him before we moved to Michigan this past summer. Rest in peace, Gene. There is a special place in Heaven for you. 

With Sympathy,

Dana and Jill Piens

Dear Fran and family,

I've read the comments posted so far and they are moving. Those of us who were Gene Eiden's students have had their lives blessed by the presence of the best teacher many of us (including me) have ever had. He was one of the finest persons I ever have known. I've thought of Gene often in the years I was a teacher -- he was always upbeat, persistent, enthusiastic, ready with a joke no matter how corny, and kind. The four years with him 1959-1963 were a gift, and six decades later and many miles removed, his life remains a gift that keeps giving. In high school I thought he might be teaching us how to make a living; in retrospect, I know that by his example he was teaching us how to make a life.  

Thank you for giving Gene the love and support needed to brings his gifts to us. 

Best wishes, 

Mike Wolff,LHS '63. St. Louis MO.

Dear Fran, Kaye, Wayne, Carol and the entire Eiden Family.

There were lots of tears as the news spread that our beloved Mr. Eiden had left our world. We struggled to express how much he meant to us, his students. We thought he would live forever, and he will in our hearts.

I was in 7^th grade at St. Pius when he came to Rochester. It was not too long before I was learning the fingering, the embouchure, the breathing required to play the clarinet. I am forever grateful to my parents for allowing me to participate in these extracurricular activities. What patience he exhibited.

At Lourdes High School, band was 1^st period. What an amazing way to start the day! We weren’t suffering to stay awake in Biology class, or Latin, or Social Studies. We were making MUSIC with the most upbeat, supportive, encouraging teacher most of us had ever had. OMG what a challenge our Mr. Eiden had in motiving, encouraging and coalescing this ragtag group of high schoolers into a bonded unit, to get us heading in one direction. I’m sure chorus participants experienced the same thing.

Now, there were issues. Marching band practice at Soldiers Field in the chilly early hours, on wet grass. Marching in parades in, e.g., Owatonna in July in our wool uniforms. But it was always an adventure, thanks to our Mr. Eiden.

He means so much to so many. We made an effort always to see him when we came back to Rochester. He came to all our LHS reunions with his red mini-trumpet to play our fight song. Always smiling, always interested in what we were doing, always our one-and-only Mr. Eiden. (I still could never call him “Gene”.)

I know that you know you shared a life with an exceptional human being. And I’m sure he felt the same way about you – he was so proud of you. Please know that you have a huge crowd of people sharing in your loss. Thank you for sharing him with us.

Elaine Conway Selmier LHS '64

Mr. Eiden: Gone but not forgotten. - Jim

Dearest Fran and Family,

Oh what a class act of a person who brightened the room as he walked in. I will always remember that his jokes were always new and non-stop. Well, there was one joke he told multiple times after a request of a new person at a gathering; something about a "pot". :-)

One story of Gene, as told by a common friend, Mary: Gene's early 60's LHS band did a high school concert in Owatonna. All went well, until the LHS school bus took off for Rochester, only without Gene. He later told me, with a smile, that he luckily found a mom and her daughter at the Owatonna school who were going to Rochester; he accepted their offer, and his chauffeurs dropped him off at Lourdes just as the band bus was arriving, and no one was the wiser. 

A couple times, I was in a remote location (Ely, and Cable, WI), and was chatting with some new friends and found that they were from Rochester, and when I realized they had gone to Lourdes, I asked if they knew Gene Eiden, and their response was a resounding "yes!" They had both been in his band and had high praise for him. 

One prized memory was one rainy August day a couple years ago, Gene had me come over with my guitar, and he had his concertina. We played polka music all afternoon. What a delight! 

Gene, we will miss you. You had a way about you that made everyone around you feel special. 

What a gift! The love that oozed from Gene; he truly lived as the hands and feet (and musical ears) of Christ. Blessings and joy on his life and the impact he had on so, so many. Prayers and love to your entire family   Todd & Mary Kelsey

To the entire Eiden family,

Every once in a lifetime a person comes along that changes everything. They set a new standard in everything they do and for those who follow. Your husband, father, and grandfather was that person. There isn't enough space to write down all of the things Gene did that made a difference and certainly not enough space to list those whose lives he made a difference in. 

We will be forever grateful for his presence at those meaningful times in our families lives and for his personal impact on so many of us. 

A special thank-you for his extraordinary leadership and commitment to veterans and their families in leading the Honor Guards and for his solemn trumpet solos.

Our gratitude to the entire family for sharing Gene with all of us over those literally countless hours and days he gave so willingly, gracefully and energetically.

Mike & Elissa (Wente) Zeman

Hearing of his passing makes my heart heavy. Yet, how can we not celebrate a life well lived? His talent, dedication, enthusiasm, optimism (even with the most unmusical band members!), bad jokes and contagious laugh will be remembered and cherished. Plus, the trumpet section in Heaven just added a ringer.

He was a dear friend to the entire Riley clan. We are thinking of you, Fran, and your family. God bless. RIP to a great man. 

Colleen Riley (bassoon)

Lourdes class of '81

Mr. Eiden was the REAL "Music Man" of Rochester, MN and LHS! Even though I was not a band member, one could not be aware of this wonderful man!

He always had a smile on his face. Any time there was a parade, you could be certain Mr. Eiden and the LHS band were playing.

I remember one bitterly cold February, Mr. Eiden played "Taps" on his trumpet, after the Military Honors for Jack Beach, my sister Laurie's father-in-law. Very moving.

My condolences to Mrs. Eiden and Family. Thank you for sharing him. We know now, he is playing with the angels!

Connie Furr-LHS '73

And God said "Let there be a man whose eyes see the good in all.  Whose music is a joyful melody and whose heart is made of gold.  He shall be named Gene Eiden."  Rest in peace dear loyal and faithful servant.  May your memory be warmly blessed.  Glory be to God on high as angels gather to fly you to heaven.,

Dear Fran, Kay, Carol, Wayne & family,

The huge number of condolences on this website speak to what an impact your husband and father had on so many of us. While I wasn’t in band, I felt like Gene was my teacher while at Lourdes and beyond. He brought such joy and commitment to his work. I recall in my years at Lourdes he was one of the finalists for MN Teacher of the Year—to all of us who knew him he was that for sure! All of us at Lourdes considered him our teacher and role model.

I recall a few Rochester mayors over the years saying what an amazing resource he was for them—they could always count on Gene to show up with the Lourdes band or whatever was needed for the occasion. Last week I shared his obituary with people I know at Saint John’s University, saying “a Johnnie giant passed away this week.”

As you mourn his loss, I hope you are buoyed by the countless memories of this fine man. Fran, thank you for sharing so generously the time and talent of your wonderful husband Gene. And thank you for all you did for the staff, students and families in Rochester Catholic Schools. 

For years I was one of many parade watchers on downton Rochester streets. When the Lourdes band came by and played, I and many thers appreciated Mr. Eiden's guidance in making great music. 

RIP Mr. Eiden.  You were one of a kind.  I have many fond memories but would like to share three that made him a special person in my life.  I had band mods 1-3 and most everyone had mod 4 open after band.  Many times, just before the mod was over, Mr. Eiden would say "the band room is closed next mod.  Give a mod to God".  He was encouraging us to attend the 15-minute mass that was offered in the small, but beautiful chapel during mod 4.

He also played the trumpet at my wedding (37 1/2 years ago).  Specifically, the prelude songs - "Annie's Song" by John Denver and "Longer" by Dan Fogelberg.  His trumpet solo during "Longer" was absolutely amazing and I still get goose bumps and tears thinking about it.  He blew the roof off of St. Pius X Church.

Five years ago, at age 88, he played Taps at the graveside service for my father-in-law.  He made a special point of coming over to Dave and I and giving us his sympathy.  

You were an extraordinary man, Mr. Eiden.

Mary (Kalmes) and Dave Rahman - '82

Sending our deepest condolences to the whole Eiden family. Gene was such a generous, joyful, kind, and gentle man. He will be greatly missed. We hope that wonderful memories of times spent with him will sustain you in the days ahead.

With sympathy, 

Laurie and Jim Korsmo

Dear Fran and Family,

Thank you for sharing Gene with us all these years. Gene was a humble man with an enormous heart. I was fortunate to play with the Hi-Liters for three years 1980-1982, my ultimate high school goal. Little did I know the Hi-Liters were a working band back then, with countless trips to the KC Hall, area hotel ballrooms for wedding gigs and annual road trips to Mankato and St Paul. Gene alone was music boosters before there was music boosters, with the band funding new instruments and repairing others, while still treating us to Perkins at 1am.

Fortunately, my friendship with Gene and his family continued to grow over the next 40 years and especially my admiration of his dedication to serving others. Over the years, I attributed the lessons I learned from my mentor in one phrase, “Work hard, play hard, laugh hard, sleep hard and pray hard”.  And we never passed up a chance to share a joke and a laugh.

Heaven is rejoicing to receive Gene back. Until we see you again.

    Mr. Eiden was a great teacher and he really had amazing dedication and amazing energy. I have a lot of memories

pf playing in the Concert Band, Marching Band and the Highlighters. When I was a Sophomore Mr. Eiden got a few members of

the Highlighters together to take a trip to downtown Minneapolis to pick out some new big band charts. I found

a big band arrangement of Sir Duke - a popular Stevie Wonder tune playing on top 40 radio at the time. Mr. Eiden took a look at the music

and ran his finger along the first few lines of the song, sight singing the melody as he moved his finger along the staff. I was blown away - the beginning of

Sir Duke is a complex horn line and I had never seen anybody sight read like that! I also remember Mr. Eiden in our Concert band class one 

morning, sort of leaning over the conductor’s podium; his back was really bothering him, and he was definitely in some pain. Students were really concerned and encouraging

him to cut the class short, but Mr. Eiden insisted on finishing that 1 hour Concert band class.

    When I think back to my time at LHS I often think about Mr. Eiden. That school would not have been the same without him, and I was one of thousands of students who benefitted

from having a teacher like Mr. Eiden.

   - Chris Micek

My preyer r with u and your family. You will be dearly missed by all that knew u. 

Mr. Eiden (“you can call me Gene”…sorry, no.) the teacher and mentor taught me:

Share your talents and help others find theirs.  Show up.  Tell jokes – even bad ones.

 In 8^th grade, after playing in a drum ensemble for our end of year concert, Mr. Eiden asked my mom to ask me if I would be interested in learning another band instrument.  I agreed. So, with a Mr. Eiden’s Tenor Saxophone and summer lessons from Mr. Yaggy - it turned out I was a pretty good saxophone player. During 9^th grade I was a dance band substitute.  The next 3 years I was a regular member of the dance band.  Dance band provided for some of my most cherished memories from High school.  It would not have happened if Mr. Eiden hadn’t believed in me.  He touched so many young lives in that way.

Another memory; I will never forget when JM won the State hockey tournament and Mr. Eiden assembled a Pep band to greet the team when they returned home.  That was awesome.

Year later, when my parents were in a serious car accident and my mother was killed (1992) – Mr. Eiden came to the funeral, played a beautiful trumpet piece and sang with the choir.  It was such a comfort to see him there and get a much-needed hug.

Mr. Eiden played Taps at my dad’s burial 8 years later.  He gave me another great big hug.

I will never forget his kindness.  His talent.  His selflessness.

I have forgotten his jokes, but still believe it is important to tell them.

Rest in peace Mr. Eiden. 

My most sincere condolences to Franny and family.

I have so many fond memories of Mr. Eiden.  

One that stands out is him playing his trumpet on a bus when I was a member of the Lourdes Hi-liters jazz band.  We were on the road for a performance.  Apparently a few of us kept him up the night before with our noise and shenanigans at the hotel. Turn-around was fair play.  He would blast out a song the minute a few of us fell asleep on the bus to keep us awake as we traveled through the Pennsylvania countryside.

He had a wonderful sense of humor, some bad one-liners, and a great laugh.  He was a great influence in my life and I am grateful to have known and learned from him.  He will be missed by many.  

Condolences to his family.  You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Mr. Eiden was my mentor and all time favorite teacher. From the time I met him when I was 11, throughout my high school years, when The Highlighters played at our wedding, when he came to hear my son's compositions played in Minneapolis until our 50th high school reunion where he marched in playing the school song on his trumpet, he was a key person in my life. In all those years I never saw him be impatient, critical or unkind to anyone. His sense of humor and terrible jokes were legend and his laugh was contagious. Gene Eiden is the reason I have been a music teacher for 50 years and the reason both my sons are professional musicians. He inspired generations of musicians. Play on, Dear Gene. We will all keep you alive through our wonderful memories of you. 

Mrs. Eiden and family, I send much love and hugs to you all during this time. Gene was such an incredible person. When I first met him I thought he was old; because he had taught my father David Rossman in the 60’s. My eyes as a 5th graders were so narrow on age! I can remember going into the basement of Lourdes and looking at instruments deciding what to play and he took one look at my lips and said “Trumpet” “you are a trumpet player”. I was thinking more the saxophone but trumpet it was. He helped me kick off a journey to love music that lasts a lifetime. He gave me courage to play my best and to not be afraid of the loud wonderful music that comes from the horn. What a fantastic long life he’s had and what a blessing he was to the entire Rochester community. May he rest in peace and may the remaining be just as blessed with long fruitful life. Peace. 

My deepest condolences to Fran and the rest of Gene's family.  Gene was one of the most influential mentors in my life.  He was my band teacher at Claremont HS where he convinced me I could play tenor sax as well as clarinet.  He formed a dance band to give us an appreciation of the greats like Glenn Miller and the Dorsey brothers.  Based on his recommendation, during my senior year I landed a job playing in the emerging band out of Kenyon called "Brother Burr and the Burrows".  A short time later he became part of the same band and for the next 5 years we shared some great times with that band playing ballrooms in Minnesota, Iowa, Wisconsin and even Nebraska.  I recall after about the third gig together, I was still calling him "Mr. Eiden".  While loading up getting ready to head out for a gig he told me, "Hey Greg, it's about time you quit with that Mr. Eiden crap".  I never forgot that graduation into his adult world.  The Brother Burr gig helped me pay my way through college and furthered my love of music and performance which has stayed with me throughout my adult life. I am sure there are many other stories like mine, all because of a truly great guy.  I am sure he has a special place in heaven.

Greg Baker

Dear Fran and family, 

We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Gene. 

We felt his joy during our high school years at Lourdes and his gracious smile will be forever remembered. A gifted man! 

‘Heaven becomes all the more real as it is peopled with the hearts of those we love.’ 

From the Cronin family, 

Mark, Maureen, Mary Jo, Marcie, Monica and Maggie. 

I first met Gene Eiden at a football game where he was directing the Lourdes marching band. My son Kevin was with me and after that game he asked me to buy him a set of drums for his 13th birthday. In the following school year Mr Eiden started a band for JrHi students, and so at Kevin’s request l took him to try out for the percussion section of that band. Gene brought out a snare drum and played a short routine on it. Then he handed Kevin the drum and asked him to duplicate that same routine. Having practiced for many weeks on his own drums, Kevin did a good enough job that Gene nodded his approval that Kevin could join the JrHi orchestra. That ‘audition’ turned out to be what launched Kevin’s career interest in music that has led to a Professorship in the School of Music at Cornell University in NY.

  That was the kind of impact Gene Eiden could have on young students and, by the way, on me as well. I volunteered to be a support parent to the LHS Band and the Hi-Liters jazz band for the next four years. As a result l saw Gene quite often.
   I was impressed by his love of music, and his dedication to the success of his students. He spent many hours beyond his normal school day to fine tune the band, and that often meant one-on-one attention to individual students after school as well as entry of a half dozen band members to State of Minnesota annual musicians competition. These activities were time consuming yet Mr Eiden was there to support his students!
  The LHS Band also played at local city events like Memorial Day and Independence Day. Mayor Chuck Hazama told me once that he had always come to expect the LHS Band to be represented at such events when other local high schools would bow out. And often Gene went above and beyond by playing a trumpet solo himself. l especially remember a Memorial Day event where he played ‘Taps’ on his own trumpet and had his best student trumpeteer shadow him from an area hidden from the audience. It was very impressive!
   During those four years as a support parent we moved many instruments, decorated the auditorium at holiday events and graduations, and held year-end parties for the band. Gene and his wife Fran were fun to work with because they loved their work! l regularly looked for ways to reward them for what they they were doing.
   On several occasions l made sure Gene was recognized for his incredible contributions to the thousands of students and members of the Rochester Lourdes community. I am so glad he lived to hear those many accolades and words of appreciation he so richly deserved. 
  Go in peace Gene Eiden, and know the memory of your music will live long after you have died

Fran and family

i would like to personally thank you for sharing Gene with so many. Lots of people asked him to share his talents for an event. I was no different. When we first started the LHS  Sports Hall of Fame I called Gene to ask him if he would play the school song before the start of the program. He was not only willing but was honored to do it. Every year he played…..and everyone looked forward to standing up and participating under Genes leadership. We felt so strongly about how much Gene Eiden contributed to Lourdes that the second year we named an award after him. It is awarded to an individual who had an impact on sports or supported it in a meaningful way but wasn’t directly involved in coaching the kids. This award should live on as long as the LHS Hall of Fame does.  Everyone involved in sports during Gene’s time at Lourdes knew what he meant to LHS. 

God Bless Gene Eiden. 

My condolences to Fran and the rest of the family. 

Tom Graf

Surely Gene is trumpeting his praises to God right now!

Fun loving, compassionate - always, always had a smile for us. Cold mornings and long evenings practicing marching band; pep bands at every sporting event; Gene froze with us at football games; after Dance Band performances he would take our little group to Perkins - he probably paid for all of us from his own pocket; 

A senior told me one time that we didn’t have band practice that day. (D.V. you know who you are). I ran down the steps to the band room - Gene was coming through the door - I asked him if we were going to practice - he said, “is the Pope Catholic?” - I said no without thinking and skipped band that day! In his graciousness he just let it go. Until he caught me with my parents one time - his usual good natured ribbing wasn’t so good that time! 

Always joking, always laughing, Gene was a fantastic mentor as well as the best instructor! We could have used more like him in other classrooms at Lourdes! 
Gene is an unforgettable man!!! ?

Glenn Anderson’82

My sympathies to Fran and family. Mr Eiden always had a great smile! 

Dear Fran & family,

What a wonderful man has gone to heaven. Boyd & I so loved his always cheerful demeanor & reveled in his “Dad Jokes” Gene has left such a legacy, every thing to be so proud of! Have such fond memories of all the Thanksgivings & holidays spent together as well as Weddings & other family gatherings.

My condolences to all, as well as blessings to each & everyone.

Love, Diana Uppman

Gene was a great colleague to work with at Lourdes High School, loyal to his students and fellow faculty members, representing Lourdes High School in a profound way with his expertise in Music and other areas as well.  So proud to know him and work with him.

I will always remember Gene from my high school days at Lourdes where I first met him. Being in band for four years, with Gene as director, was a wonderful experience! To this day, I still remember the fun we had and the the daily learning experiences under his direction! He was kind and knowledgeable in mentoring his students! As an adult, I continued to see Gene playing his trumpet in community celebrations and at many memorial services.  And as members of the same church, I was fortunately able to continue a friendship with this kind, gentle man! Rest in peace, Gene. 

Heaven has just gained another angel! Gene was my band instructor in 1956 and 1957 in Claremont. I was their babysitter for the first two children. What great little tots they were. Gene started me with my first baritone solo.”my Regards”  He entered me in contests and public appearances. In 1957 Gene challenged me to take up the trumpet which was also a good fit. I thought the world was coming to an end when he left the Claremont school. His shoes were extremely hard to fill. Rochester Lourdes was a great move for him. Gene will be missed by so many people. Prayers to your family!

To the Eiden Family,   We will miss our beloved choir director and long time fellow 500 player.  Now Gene will have a brand new group of people to share his many jokes with.  Love to you Fran and your family.     Mary and Quint Lohse  

My sympathies to Fran and family. Mr Eiden always had a great smile! 

Always enjoyed a good natured ribbing with Gene over practicing his trumpet playing. He will be missed by many. 

It’s been so long since this wonderful man tutored me on trumpet in his office by the Lourdes band room and took me to play taps at military funerals.  My memories of him are still vivid after all these years.

God bless his soul.  I know where he is now.

Dear Fran & family,

What a wonderful man has gone to heaven. Boyd & I so loved his always cheerful demeanor & reveled in his “Dad Jokes” Gene has left such a legacy, every thing to be so proud of! Have such fond memories of all the Thanksgivings & holidays spent together as well as Weddings & other family gatherings.

My condolences to all, as well as blessings to each & everyone.

Love, Diana Uppman

Gene’s Family

So many wonderful memories to share!  He was a blessing to so many students and families. 

Fond memories include performing “Feeling Groovy” with a dance routine at a football game halftime 

Performing in the “Dance Band” enhanced my love of music, in particular the swing music from the mid twentieth century. 

Being part of the orchestra when the school musicals were produced.  

Playing taps when you requested was a great honor for me.

May you never be forgotten. 

Jim Heydon

Deepest condolences to the Eiden Family.  I remember at LHS, our first class most days was with Mr. Eiden. His cheerful and enthusiastic demeanor was a great way to start the day.  He had a remarkable impact on all of us. How lucky we were to have him as our teacher and band leader.

Gene is one of a kind and we will miss seeing him. He had a ready joke and infectious smile. I am so grateful RCS has his presence for so many years too. He truly brought God’s love to all he met.  

We are sending love and prayers. May he rest in eternal peace. 

Gene is one of a kind and we will miss seeing him. He had a ready joke and infectious smile. I am so grateful RCS has his presence for so many years too. He truly brought God’s love to all he met.  

We are sending love and prayers. May he rest in eternal peace. 

Gene had a HUGE impact on my life, and I'll always be extremely grateful for his mentorship. (I just wish I'd played better for him.) I was very surprised when he showed up to play Taps for my dad's burial 2 years ago, but that was Gene.  A kind, great man. They don't make many like that.

I am so very saddened by the loss of Gene. What wonderful, fun, nutty person, and an amazing friend and teacher. 
He was a dear cherished friend to my dad Ray Cleveland, and the Cleveland family. He arranged for the band to play after my dad had a health scare, and during the reviewal after my dad’s death. He brought a sense of occasion and great joy to us, and SO many others. I will really miss you Gene! 

My deepest condolences to the Eiden family at the loss of Gene, an irrepressibly good natured soul and wonderful mentor.  Along with many others, I had the pleasure and .... 'pain' (remember freezing early morning marching band rehearsals at the west end of the old Lourdes High School...mid 1970s?) of experiencing Gene's earnest tutelage.  Two stories that are etched in my being from that period that seemed to define a side of Gene we students were so grateful for.  The first will be relevant to the Mackens.  We were in band practice on the 'risers' in the main band practice room in the basement of LHS.  The first chair saxophonist was Peggy Macken and the risers were full that year with students, so seating was rather tight.  At one point in the musical crescendo, the outside legs of Peggy's chair slipped off the end of the riser and she tumbled, with saxophone in tow, to the floor fortunately unscathed.  But the music halted abruptly and Gene rushed over with great concern....and swooped the saxophone off the floor to make sure it was not broken and still held a tune!  Yes, we all broke out laughing as it was clear Peggy was not hurt and was just embarrassed.  And as soon as Gene realized how this looked, he too grew beet red in the face with embarrassment.  Soon the whole room was laughing including Gene and it was just a reminder of the good natured attitude in those sessions.   

The second story illustrates how Gene could really go out of his way to enrich his student's musical experience. The famous trumpet player Dizzie Gillespie was visiting the University of Minnesota stage band to play as guest artist.  Off the cuff some of us mused how it would be fun to go up as a small group to see this concert.  Gene made it happen!  We took a school van and in short order this rag-tag group of LHS students were in Northrop Auditorium in front of one of the great jazz trumpet players of all time!  At one point a rather young boy who was full of energy went running down the aisle towards the stage while the stage band with Dizzy was in full blast performance.  Dizzy suddenly stopped playing and bellowed "Now where do you think you're going young man!!??..."  That little boy just froze, the audience broke out laughing and I thought Gene was going to bust a gut he was laughing so hard.  

So.....just one more voice wishing the Eiden family peace, good memories, and to Gene, the best stage band up high that you could ever hope to assemble.  Rest well, Gene.

Dear Fran & family,

What a wonderful man has gone to heaven. Boyd & I so loved his always cheerful demeanor & reveled in his “Dad Jokes” Gene has left such a legacy, every thing to be so proud of! Have such fond memories of all the Thanksgivings & holidays spent together as well as Weddings & other family gatherings.

My condolences to all, as well as blessings to each & everyone.

Love, Diana Uppman

My sympathies to Fran and family. Mr Eiden always had a great smile! 

We were so saddened to hear of Mr. Eiden’s passing. What a wonderful music teacher he was.

I always credited him, for introducing me to my future husband, in the trumpet section, of Claremont’s senior band. He gave a little scared to death, 6 th grader, (me) the chance to play trumpet in the senior band, which I think was a first.

Guess he saw a good future trumpet player in the making? ? And the guy who played 2nd trumpet, was the guy I married. 58 yrs ago! 

So Gene rest in peace you’ll always be remembered, fondly, by this couple.

Our deepest sympathy, to the family.

Connie & Gary Wobig 

I met Mr Eiden at St Francis grade school when I was 8 years old.  He taught me clarinet and I was in his band through high school.  Great teacher and blessed with a sense of humor.  The day he asked us to play "Lights Out March" and one of the band members plunged the band room into darkness....he laughed longer and harder than any of us!  The mornings we practiced marching he drove a bunch of us back to school in his station wagon...instruments and people layered into the vehicle like sardines!  

God blessed him with a long life.  My condolences to his family and friends.

We were so saddened to hear of Mr. Eiden’s passing. What a wonderful music teacher he was.

I always credited him, for introducing me to my future husband, in the trumpet section, of Claremont’s senior band. He gave a little scared to death, 6 th grader, (me) the chance to play trumpet in the senior band, which I think was a first.

Guess he saw a good future trumpet player in the making? ? And the guy who played 2nd trumpet, was the guy I married. 58 yrs ago! 

So Gene rest in peace you’ll always be remembered, fondly, by this couple.

Our deepest sympathy, to the family.

Connie & Gary Wobig 

It’s been so long since this wonderful man tutored me on trumpet in his office by the Lourdes band room and took me to play taps at military funerals.  My memories of him are still vivid after all these years.

God bless his soul.  I know where he is now.

My deepest sympathy to all. Gene was a wonderful person and talented musician. My connection would be the old time bands he played with. It was always a pleasure to listen to him play and visit with him. 

To the family of Mr. Eiden.  I never met Mr. Eiden, but he and others played at the graveside of my father, Emil Zahasky in June of 2011.  My Dad had served in the Army in WWII.  I will always remember that sacred moment.  May your memories bring you comfort on the journey before you.  He will never be forgotten.

Gene was a wonderful man and an inspiration to us all. 
After moving to Minnesota from Los Angeles I was looking for places to play my trumpet. I was introduced to Gene by our departed friend Curt Peterson and started playing in the Notocords band. What great fun it was to play under Gene’s direction. At all of our gigs he always had a list of jokes to keep us and the audience laughing. What a great man. 
he will be missed by us all 

Our deepest condolences as you face these difficult days ahead. Those of us who attended Lourdes High School during Gene's time there were so lucky. He touched everyone. Most of would never have learned how to polka without his lessons! Thank you Gene! Kathy, Ellen and Cindy Frego

I was in the public schools in Rochester playing clarinet but have known Gene Eiden for a number of years.  My children were both percussionists at John Marshall HS, and my entire family played in the band at John Marshall.  Gene Eiden worked part time as a driver at the Good Year on 37th Street and I knew him from there and also from his time at Lourdes teaching and also playing taps at many funerals that I attended.  He was one of the kindest nicest people I ever knew, and his listening skills and smile and kindness were what I will always remember about him.  He will be greatly missed in this community for many years to come, but his legacy will live on.  I used to also go to the cemetary on Memorial Day and he would play taps there which was such a great honor as I stood by my parents graves.  My father served in the military and it meant a lot to both my late husband and I to hear that every year.  Rest in Peace Mr. Gene Eiden.  You will be greatly missed but we will see you again someday.  God will be with you in heaven.  

My condolences to the family of this wonderful man. My heart is truly saddened at his passing.

Mr Eiden (as he will always be to me) was the only reason I made it through High School. He gave me hope when I was overwhelmed with sadness. He gave me a place to go where I felt I was accepted and respected. 

I played with the Dance Band for 4 years, 1972 - 1976. Very rare for a freshman to be accepted into that wonderful musical group. In all there were 4 of my brothers and sisters who played in the Dance Band. We all have wonderful memories of that time.

Marching Band was the second best highlight of my High School musical career but I also played in the Concert Band. Music is the only real pleasant memory I have of High School and that is because of Mr Eiden.

I know at this time we normally bring out our signing fish but it's off key and we still don't know how to Tuna Fish.  (That was for you Mr Eiden. Gone but never forgotten)

Mrs. Eiden and Family,

I'm a member of the American Legion Honor Guard and had a lot of respect for Gene as our leader and playing taps. This community will miss Gene immensely for all he did for veteran organizations and funerals. We will miss his stories, jokes, warmth, and engaging laughter. After a funeral we often gathered at the Legion for a beverage and camaraderie. Gene would usually have one and then look forward to returning home to his bride and family. I understood his wanting to get home as the Eiden home is warm  and loving. His man cave, which I was fortunate to tour, is a real treasure. I can envision Gene in Heaven playing music so the residents can polka, waltz, 2-step, and do-si-do!

America and the community has lost a remarkable man, who will be missed by many. My thoughts and prayers to the Eiden family. Find joy in the many great memories.

Mike Riester

 Condolences to all who knew and loved Gene.  As a band instructor he taught us to strive to be a class act. He lead by example.  His tireless dedication to Lourdes High School, his

students, his family and his church was amazing. I feel blessed  to have seen Gene give us his time and talents in so many ways.  I respect his service to his fellow veterans.  He 

never stopped giving.  I feel blessed to have been shown what a life of service can look like.  I am honored to have had a friend like Gene in my life.

Rich Holland 3rd trombone  81-85

To the family of Mr Eiden

I would always say hello Mr Eiden when I saw him and his words to me were: You can call me Gene but I told him I couldn’t do that because he would always be Mr Eiden to me. What a wonderful person and band instructor. He always made me smile. He will be missed. 

Its hard to find the right words to state what Gene meant to me.

He taught me how to play trumpet the right way, but with a gentle and wise hand never being harsh.

Like others, I admired him for many reasons, not the least of which was the great integrity he always seemed to display regardless of the circumstances.

Some of the best memories I have are playing in band and the dance band for Gene.  He always seemed to get the absolute best out of his musicians, always inspiring us to play our best to make him proud.

He really was an incredible “school Dad”, as well as a great source of advice.

I miss him already.

Greg Zent

LHS class of 1981

My sympathies to Fran and family. Mr Eiden always had a great smile! 

I moved to Rochester in 1959 at the age of 16. I went to Lourdes High school where Gene was my music instructor from 1959 to 1961.. During that time… Gene got me into  a  old-time band that he played in …. The two years I  was in the band we would make $15 a night playing from 9 o’clock in the evening to 1 o’clock  in the morning…..which I thought was a ton of money … during my two years  at Lourdes   Gene  was a wonderful music instructor and made my high school years a good experience…I will truly miss his great smile  and  wonderful sense of humor.    Jerry 

I offer my deepest condolences to the Eiden family for the loss of Gene.  He was an exceptional person in so many ways.  We have lost one of the best of mankind.  (and someone warn the angles to put cotton in their ears if he starts telling jokes!) 

Dear Eiden family,

my heartfelt condolences to you all.  So many find memories of Mr Eiden but one that truly stands out to me is when he got a pep band together and came out to our Crosscountry meet at Eastwood golf course.  I had mentioned that we were one off those sports that were never fortunate to have them at our races.   So what does he do?  He brings them out and they play the LHS song as we take off running!   I was so proud as other teams commented how cool that was!  He truly was Lourdes High School and treated every student as if we were his own!! He will be truly missed.  I for one feel very blessed to have had him as my band instructor!   May he be joining in the bands of angels!!   RIP Mr Eiden you truly were one of a kind!! 

I’m so sorry for your loss.  He was truly  a great man, affecting the lives of countless people in his life.  He was a blessing to us all.  I’ll be praying for him & your whole family ❤️ (Class of ‘89)

To the family of Mr. Eiden...I'm so saddened to hear of Mr. Eiden's passing. I started piano lessons when I was 5...by the time I arrived at Lourdes as a first year in the fall of 1980 I had already studied music for nearly a decade and had taken up the oboe in middle school. The oboe is obviously an important instrument in orchestra but it's not suited for marching band. What first year student only wants to play in the orchestra?! So, Mr. Eiden suggested that I pick up another instrument for the fall season so I could march with my friends and wear that incredibly attractive purple, gold and white band uniform! He invited me to come in over the summer so he could teach me new instruments..who does that? I know he wasn't paid. He did it because of his love of teaching, of young people, and of music. The first summer I learned took up a cousin of the oboe, the alto sax and I loved it! I thought I was as cool as Clarence Clemmons, the sax player in Bruce Springsteen's E-Street Band! LOL...the next summer, there were not enough trumpets to fill out the line, so Mr Eiden patiently worked with me to learn the trumpet. Not a cousin of the oboe, I struggled on the brass instrument. One day, while we were marching, he noted that the sound coming out of my instrument sounded like a wounded animal...he suggested I march, hold the instrument to my lips, but not actually blow. He found a perfect solution so that I could feel part of the band, but not mess up the sound he so carefully cultivated in his musicians. I will never forget how good he made me feel in that moment of teenage embarrassment. A truly wonderful human. RIP Mr. Eiden....

Angie Hattery, class of 1984, and proud member of the band...

I’m so sorry for your loss.  He was truly  a great man, affecting the lives of countless people in his life.  He was a blessing to us all.  I’ll be praying for him & your whole family ❤️ (Class of ‘89)

Dear Eiden family,

I can't say anything more about Mr. Eiden that hasn't been said.  I remember his zest for music, life, and his students!  Free mods were always  spent in the band room, hoping Mr. E would be there.  If I was having a bad day, the band room always made me happy!  What better place than Mr. E's band room!!!  Bust out the instruments and just play.  Or talk, or have him listen to why my day wasn't going so well.

He was truly our "Mr. Holland Opus" but on steroids!!!  I don't think there could be another school with the student body of 500 kids, having not one but TWO bands!  That is a true testament to Mr. Eiden and his passions flowing over to his students!

My husband and I had the dance band play our wedding dance in 1982.  I asked him to end the night with our school song.  It was a rocking way to go out since 75% of our guests were LHS108 alum!

RIP Mr. Eiden!  Heaven is lucky to have you, as all of your students were as well!!
Laurie Fischer Gathje

I am truly saddened to hear of the passing of this great man.  Rochester has lost one of its best.  And yet, despite my disappointment, I find myself smiling every time I think of Gene and any of my past interactions with him.  That's what he does for people, that's what he always did for me.  No matter the situation or the circumstances, I walked away from every engagement with him better-off and smiling.  Gene had a special talent for bringing Joy; I would get giddy like a child any chance I had to perform with him, because I knew I was in for a good time -- even that one time he had me playing Polka music!

As with too many people in our lives, I can attest that we rarely get to spend enough time with the right people.  I was just asking about Gene the other day--a sure sign I hadn't kept in touch enough.  Gene, we will all miss your endearing good nature, the generous way you were always willing to help out (like letting me borrow your horns when needed), the quiet dignity when you played Taps at a memorial service (and man did you look good in uniform!), the energy you displayed leading a band, and the endless supply of jokes and one-liners you could peel off in a conversation.  You made every occasion better; you're one of the good guys.  I'm sure there's some good laughter and music being heard in Heaven right now.

I am truly saddened to hear of the passing of this great man.  Rochester has lost one of its best.  And yet, despite my disappointment, I find myself smiling every time I think of Gene and any of my past interactions with him.  That's what he does for people, that's what he always did for me.  No matter the situation or the circumstances, I walked away from every engagement with him better-off and smiling.  Gene had a special talent for bringing Joy; I would get giddy like a child any chance I had to perform with him, because I knew I was in for a good time -- even that one time he had me playing Polka music!

As with too many people in our lives, I can attest that we rarely get to spend enough time with the right people.  I was just asking about Gene the other day--a sure sign I hadn't kept in touch enough.  Gene, we will all miss your endearing good nature, the generous way you were always willing to help out (like letting me borrow your horns when needed), the quiet dignity when you played Taps at a memorial service (and man did you look good in uniform!), the energy you displayed leading a band, and the endless supply of jokes and one-liners you could peel off in a conversation.  You made every occasion better; you're one of the good guys.  I'm sure there's some good laughter and music being heard in Heaven right now.

I was so sad to hear that this beautiful soul has left us. During my years @ Lourdes I was in the Jazz Band and Gene was my director, but most importantly he was like a second Dad ot me. He was my cheerleader and believed in me. He was such a warm, good hearted , talented/gifted person. Anyone was lucky to be in his presence. He exuded a charisma of love and lifted your spirits when you needed it.

Geno I will miss you but I know you're playing your heart out in heaven. Heaven is fortunate to have you. 

What is there to be said about Gene that hasn't been said? A lover of life, music, friendship, service, and family. A true inspiration to us all, and I'm proud to have dedicated a song in his honor many years ago. All of my condolences to his family, and my heart is full that we've been blessed by him for so many years. For Gene: A man walked into a bar, and he said "Ouch!". 

A friendship of over 35 years… one of the first people we met upon our move to Rochester! We share a love for music education, the Pax Christi community, and Rochester Catholic Schools. It was such a joy to be in Gene’s presence; he found laughter and good in everything he did. The angels are rejoicing as heaven and nature sing this Christmas. Go with God! 

Dear Fran and Eiden Family,

How very fitting that a man with all the very best qualities that we all could strive for was called home at Christmas time.  We will miss Gene’s musical talent, his story telling, laughter and smile but most of all his friendship.  

We will fondly remember the lederhosen and accordion playing among other musical instruments.  Finally, Gene’s quick responses to “Hi Gene” followed by his comeback of “Always important to bathe daily”.

Thank You Gene for the blessing of your life and friendship

My deepest sympathies to the Eiden family on Gene's passing. Mr. Eiden started me on the flute back at St. John's Grade School in the late '50s. I'm now 77 years old and still playing it and the piccolo in a community college concert band, so I am eternally thankful to him for encouraging me all those years ago. He also gave me my nickname, "Reggie," in spite of a few nuns at Lourdes High School being upset that I was using it instead of "Regina Marie." When I went away to college I introduced myself as "Reggie" and use it to this day. Those of us who played in the Band have so many fond memories of Mr. Eiden's patience and talent. Some of us played in The Highlighters, the dance band, around SE Minnesota. He would load us onto a bus provided by Dr. Wente, as I recall, and we'd head off to some VFW or K of C or local school event...gosh, those were fun gigs. Mr. Eiden attended all of the Class of 1964's reunions, playing his trumpet as he led us in the school song. We were expecting to see him next September at our 60th. He set such a good example, whether you were in the Band or not. Patience, a great sense of humor, loyalty and his strong faith...all attributes that he instilled in us. He will be deeply missed but his spirit will live on in those of us whom he taught and nurtured. May his spirit lead Heaven's Band for all eternity, and may we play in it someday. Thanks, Mr. Eiden, for a lifetime of memories. 

Our condolences to the family.  Although I grew up in Iowa, my husband had Gene as his band director.  Gene also volunteered with the Lourdes marching band when my daughter was a trumpet player at Lourdes (2015-2018).  He never stopped making music!  Heaven now has one of the best!

Dear Fran and Eiden Family,

How very fitting that a man with all the very best qualities that we all could strive for was called home at Christmas time.  We will miss Gene’s musical talent, his story telling, laughter and smile but most of all his friendship.  

We will fondly remember the lederhosen and accordion playing among other musical instruments.  Finally, Gene’s quick responses to “Hi Gene” followed by his comeback of “Always important to bathe daily”.

Thank You Gene for the blessing of your life and friendship

I loved Gene's sense of humor and his infectious laugh!  He was generous with his time and his talent.  He called Les on Dec 21 to say Merry Christmas and we unfortunately didn't get the message until Dec 25.  Our plan was to call him on Dec. 25, but that didn't work out.  I am so sorry he and Les didn't get to talk with each other at Christmas!   Our thoughts and prayers are with Fran and their children.  We will see you at the services.  Barb and Les

I loved Gene's sense of humor and his infectious laugh!  He was generous with his time and his talent.  He called Les on Dec 21 to say Merry Christmas and we unfortunately didn't get the message until Dec 25.  Our plan was to call him on Dec. 25, but that didn't work out.  I am so sorry he and Les didn't get to talk with each other at Christmas!   Our thoughts and prayers are with Fran and their children.  We will see you at the services.  Barb and Les

I loved Gene's sense of humor and his infectious laugh!  He was generous with his time and his talent.  He called Les on Dec 21 to say Merry Christmas and we unfortunately didn't get the message until Dec 25.  Our plan was to call him on Dec. 25, but that didn't work out.  I am so sorry he and Les didn't get to talk with each other at Christmas!   Our thoughts and prayers are with Fran and their children.  We will see you at the services.  Barb and Les

My heart just hurts with the news that Gene has passed away. He was such a kind, wonderful person, and always had a smile. He will be missed by so many. Our sincere condolences for your loss. Please let Paul and I know if we can be of any help.  We have space for people to stay, if you need that. Hugs to you all. 

Renee and Paul Olsen. 

We are so very sad to hear of his passing. He is truly a legend. I enjoyed the few times he would give me a ride when my car was worked on. Some great Lourdes stories. The trumpets in Heaven will be that much brighter.